Flirting online is in fashion. And it is no wonder, since the hustle and bustle of everyday life, work and family commitments and other circumstances can leave us a little isolated when it comes to finding people we are attracted to and with whom we can maintain a more or less stable relationship. .
Luckily, Badoo (the largest dating app in the world with more than 368 million users worldwide) has studied how we relate and how the Internet can be a favorable medium for passion and feelings to flow. It is not only about acting as a link between people who want to meet other people, but about evaluate their profiles, their interests and their preferences in order to establish the best harmony between users who really fit
Photos on social networks and what we transmit with them
One of the most interesting factors that the Badoo developers have analyzed is the relationship between the type of profile photo that each user shows and the perception and expectations that that image generates in other users, potentially interested in learning more about it.
In this regard, they have provided themselves with a team of sociologists and psychologists who, by analyzing the hot spots in the users’ sessions, have allowed them to learn more about what reaction the users have through our body or gestural attitude that we show. in the profile image.
So, we have allowed ourselves to do a brief compilation of the 7 most common types of profile photo and what the reaction of other users is
1. Smile and happiness
One of the most common. People who have a profile photo outlining a big smile from ear to ear transmit joy, vitality and transparency Now, different studies clarify this question. While men perceive women who laugh often as more attractive, the reverse is not the case. Apparently, women feel a more genuine attraction towards men with profile photos that appear more serious and mysterious, according to different studies. In the case of homosexual people, there is still not enough data to know if the trend is reproduced.
Like everything in this life, a nuance is worth adding: whether you are a man or a woman, if your smile is one of those that conquers anyone, you will do well to show this happy and optimistic side.
2. Artistic photo (in which your face is not fully visible)
Be careful with artistic photos, because they tend to have little hook If in your profile photo you abuse the gradient, the blur, or are in a pose where your face cannot be clearly seen, you will normally generate distrust. Users who see you will wonder: “why doesn’t he want to show his face? Maybe he is a difficult and unapproachable person, with hidden intentions?”
An excessively artistic photo, however, can attract the attention of people with a special taste for aesthetics and art, of course. But for ordinary mortals, you are not going to generate enough empathy or transparency for them to decide to communicate with you.
3. Show the body (sexy photo)
It is not usually a good idea if what you are looking for is a moderately serious relationship However, if your goal is to have sporadic relationships and you really feel comfortable teaching a little, it may be a good idea. Be that as it may, keep in mind that this first impression that other users have about you can lead them towards a more direct and superficial type of communication, in which it will be somewhat more complicated to simmer feelings.
4. Defiant attitude
According to Badoo experts, it is usually not a good option. If you show an avoidant or pretentious disposition, you will generate strange sensations in the other person, so it is likely that they will not be able to connect with you or get to know you more. Besides, you can generate a slightly “creepy” image, that is, you can scare the staff and they can identify you with conflicting personality traits and that generate little trust.
Think about it: do you want to meet someone who shows you their positive and optimistic version or a dark and untrustworthy version?
5. Funny photo
Be careful with photos that are too funny That is, it is likely that you can generate a smile on the other side of the screen, but they can also make you seem like a somewhat superficial person who takes life lightly, which can give you an image of a person who does not like commitment and relationships. Serious relationships.
Avoid putting funny faces or faces in your profile photo! Appearing immature or frivolous usually doesn’t generate attraction.
6. Pensive and melancholic
Another type of profile photo that should be avoided or, at least, be aware of its possible negative effects on the other side of the screen Giving a melancholic appearance can make you deduct points, since we generally want to surround ourselves with vitalistic people who know how to see the positive side of life.
It’s just a profile picture, you’ll think. And you are right! But users potentially interested in you are going to make a quick decision about whether you give them good or bad vibes, and appearing pensive or overly serious or downcast isn’t going to help you.
7. Sportsman
Not a bad idea at all! If you enjoy doing a specific sport, you can show yourself to the world with that great photo practicing tennis, basketball, gymnastics… Now, you always have to take certain precautions. Please note that you must show your face clearly, i.e. Do not prioritize a photograph in which it is not clear who you are Also, don’t choose a photo in which you look too absorbed in the activity (if you’re a boy, don’t show muscles or anything like that, or you’ll look too narcissistic). Choose that image in which you are seen having fun and in shape, having a good time, happy and vital.
So, which profile photo is most suitable?
As we see in these conclusions drawn from different studies carried out by Badoo, our profile image speaks a lot about who we are and what we want to convey to people potentially interested in getting to know us. Therefore, it is advisable to choose with caution and good taste that first photograph that others will see and from which they will generate some notions about what we are like or what they can expect from us.
Life is not summed up in a single photograph, of course Don’t take anything described above too seriously. Choose how to show yourself to the world by being true to who you are, but also taking into account these tricks provided by flirting social media studies with which you can achieve more and better connection with that special person who is, somewhere on the map, interested in meeting you.