People always talk about women’s “innate” ability to detect when a man is interested in them. exist a series of gestures, signals and signs that men can’t help but do when they are around a girl who drives them crazy
But even though some signs are pretty obvious, many women have trouble knowing if a guy is interested in them or not. The information can be ambiguous at times, to the point where many girls don’t quite know if there is physical attraction, or a simple friendship.
Does that boy like you? Signs that can help you know
To clarify these aspects that are unequivocal signs of attraction, we have prepared this small guide so that you know when a man really likes you, with a high degree of reliability.
Related article: “The 6 signs that show physical attraction towards another person”
1. Permanent smile
A classic. If the man in front of you can’t stop smiling when you’re around, for no apparent reason, he may like you, a lot. The smile is one of the essential ways to express that another person causes us good feelings
If he likes to talk to you, he usually comes up to you to ask you anything and has a high mood when he is by your side… it is very likely that he feels something special for you.
A more subtle sign, but it is also a good indicator to know if he likes you. If he pays a lot of attention to your lips and mouth when you talk, it may be a sign that he likes you
If he looks at your mouth, he’ll most likely want to kiss you. Obviously this does not mean that anyone who observes your lips is desperately wanting to kiss you, but it can be a sign that, added to others, can be enough indications for you to start thinking that there is attraction in the environment. Observing your lips is an unconscious gesture, but it says a lot about the intention of the boy you are chatting with.
3. He pays attention to you
This is a more obvious sign, although many women do not value it as it deserves If he gives you attention, care and pampering, it is very likely that he is interested in you. If he also has gestures and is gentle… the issue is even clearer.
If you notice that whenever you say something he seems interested, if he tries to catch up on the topics you usually talk about… you should start to think that this boy is attracted to you.
4. He is kind to you
Another classic, and one of the most obvious signs: If this man is nice to you, if he tries to make things easier for you and praises you subtly, he is interested in you
But be careful, we will have to see if he has a special way of dealing with you or if he is equally chivalrous with everyone… calibrating this is up to you.
One of the most obvious signs to know if a man likes you is his predisposition to find hobbies and points in common with you for example when you chat or when you express that you especially like something.
If you tell him that you love surfing and he automatically tells you that he would love to learn to surf… a clear sign of attraction. If you love dance music and he tells you that he loves it too, and invites you to go to a concert… well, that’s also a sign that there’s something special. Why is this happening? When we like someone, we try to offer a better half image, to make them understand that we are a potential partner for him or her. Sharing hobbies is one of the ways to connect on a romantic and emotional level.
6. You can’t help but get nervous
Even the most confident men show signs of feeling a little insecure around that girl they dream about. Rigidity, doubtful attitude, thinking a lot about what they say or do, unnatural movements …are signs of this nervousness.
7. Body posture
In another article we talk about non-verbal language. It can be another aspect in which to observe certain signs of attraction towards you. For example, if he imitates your posture, if he directs his body directly towards you, if he sticks his chest out… all these body gestures can indicate attraction.
8. He wants to spend time with you
One of the most obvious signs that a man feels an uncontrollable attraction towards you is the following: if he tries to get you to see each other outside the usual context, invites you out for a drink or appears “casually” at your work, it is because he wants to be near you.
Any pretext that a man can use to see you, you can interpret it as a sign of physical and/or romantic attraction In the end, he’s deciding to prioritize you over other people or hobbies. If that’s not a sign of attraction, let God come down and see.
Observations, nuances and extra advice
First of all, a small nuance: human beings are very complex. Someone may be showing you signs that you interpret incorrectly. For example, a guy may be trying to spend a lot of time with you for some reason other than physical attraction. You must value it and take it into account.
Anyway, and Although humans are capable of lying through words, gestures and non-verbal communication, it is much more difficult to conceal That is why gestural signals, although they may be subtle, offer us a practical way to know what that boy is thinking about you.
Another suggestion is that you don’t close doors: there are many guys who want to meet you. For example, you can check out our article on dating apps.
