Have a daring role in front of another person It can allow us to get closer and generate some type of effect (in many cases interpersonal attraction or admiration), as well as facilitate support for us to achieve our goals. Likewise, it allows us to assess the attitudes and thoughts of the person questioned, according to the way in which they manage stress or nerves.
This article focuses on trying to reflect various compromising questions what we can or can do to us in different areas.
There are topics of conversation that we cannot or at least do not usually touch on with everyone. Beliefs, dilemmas, taboos such as sex and compromising situations in general can generate some discomfort between the interlocutors. But on the other hand, they allow us to leave the comfort zone and make stimuli and information appear that would not otherwise be expressed.
Below we will see 27 compromising questions that can help us break the comfort zone and explore other facets of the people with whom we are talking. Of course, it must be taken into account that some people may not consider them appropriate and may not answer them, and may even get angry or react negatively. Whether it is appropriate or not to do them It will depend on the type of person we are talking to, the type of relationship we have the relational climate and even the situation in which they are carried out.
1. What makes you feel alive?
It may not be the most challenging question we can ask, but depending on the type of person we are interacting with, we may find it difficult express our deepest motivations the things that make us vibrate the most.
2. What is your biggest fear?
What generates the greatest fear is usually something that tends to be hidden, since can be experienced as something intimate that others could judge Likewise, if it is answered it allows us to know much better about the other person and the things they value.
3. What would you change about yourself?
Most people have some aspect they would like to improve about themselves. Confessing it means exposing the aspects of oneself that do not fit with our ideal self.
4. What is your biggest dream?
Our greatest desire, what we would like to achieve, also It is usually something that is not usually told in regular conversations
5. Have you ever been cruel or used someone?
Many people have at some point used someone, or been cruel to someone who didn’t deserve it, sometimes even without meaning to. This generates in the long run (in most cases) feelings of guilt and denial One of the most direct compromising questions.
Tastes and habits that have been socially and historically sanctioned and considered vices are often hidden.
7. When did you last lie about something important?
Although it is not unusual, lying has a negative connotation that makes it We are often not comfortable indicating how and when we have done it
8. What is the most embarrassing thing someone has caught you doing?
We may find our own behavior embarrassing in a certain situation or context, such as in front of our parents, friends or partner. Dancing naked or being discovered having relationships are examples of this.
9. What do you think of yourself as a person?
Defining oneself is not as easy as it seems, and most people do not usually reflect on it. What do you think and what would you criticize about your way of being and doing?
11. Do you have any complexes? Which?
Our complexes, fears and doubts are topics that most people do not usually share, especially if it is something we consider shameful.
12. Which of the other candidates would you not take and why?
This question is generally limited to the field of business, although it can be modified to insert it into other areas. In the workplace, it is, in fact, a relatively common question that seeks to observe both the interviewee’s reaction and their response or lack thereof.
13. What is the part of your body that you like the most?
Although this question is very similar to one of the previous ones, in this case we limit the answer to the physical appearance, which can be much more uncomfortable or disturbing. It also allows us to observe what aspects he values ​​most about himself on a physical level.
14. And mine?
Much more daring than the previous one, especially if there is an attraction on the part of the subject asked. It allows us to see what aspects the other person focuses on, in addition to being able to assume from the reaction if we raise something in that person
Answering this question means recognizing that we have done something wrong or we have not done something that we consider we should have done.
16. How far would you go to fulfill a craving?
We live in an individualistic and competitive society. Ask if we would set a limit on what we can do for achieve our goals more vain can be compromising.
17. What is the craziest thing you have done for love?
When we fall in love, we can do really crazy things. Some of them may be ridiculous, bizarre or exaggerated if seen from the outside or objectively, although they may be worthwhile.
18. Do you prefer to be the author of an injustice or its victim?
Basically, we are asking if you prefer to be a victim or an executioner. Although the type of injustice can be qualified, It helps us to see how the other person reflects and justifies their choice (neither of the two is usually highly valued), as well as their moral position in life.
19. Have you given up on anything in life?
Answering this question can be hard if the answer is positive, since it means recognizing the existence of a defeat.
20. Have you ever been unfaithful?
Infidelity is something socially frowned upon that tends to be hidden by those who practice it. If it has been, this question can be compromising
21. What have you never dared to ask me?
If the relationship with the person being asked is good, it is possible that at some point they have not been able or wanted to ask us a question that they have never dared to ask. If this is the case, this question can be quite compromising, but it can help clear up doubts and strengthen the relationship
22. What would you do if a stranger kissed you on the street?
This is an unusual and surprising situation, and it can be uncomfortable to consider.
23. What is the worst mistake you have made?
Mistakes are often seen as embarrassing or failures, even though they can be seen as opportunities. Confessing them can be difficult for some people.
24. Would you be happy to see someone you hate having a bad time?
If someone has hurt us to the point of hatred, the idea of ​​seeing them suffer can give us a certain perverse satisfaction.
25. Have you ever gotten revenge on someone?
Wanting revenge when someone hurts us It is frequent. But there is a distance from saying to doing.
26. If all the people in your life were in a house, it caught fire and you could only save one person, who would you save?
A difficult question to answer.
27. What would I have to do to seduce you?/How would you seduce me?
The idea that the person we are talking to is trying to seduce us can be shocking and disturbing, as well as answering what would be necessary for mutual attraction to exist.
