Often at meetings of tupper sex what do I do with PleasureWithMeaning I meet people who ask me “how can I get more excited?”, “how can I feel more sexual desire?” Or: “Lately I don’t get as excited anymore but I want to feel more, how can I do it?”
All these people add that their partner is the same as always, that they love her very much and they have always liked her. How come now it seems not to be enough?
As time goes by and as routine takes over relationships with your partner, It is normal to get used to what you have and forget to look for passion, playing and experimenting to awaken desire. However, that doesn’t mean that should be the case. Eroticizing our mind so that passion does not die will allow us to live sexuality with greater intensity, and that is why it is very useful to generate and create erotic fantasies that enhance the sexual desire The key question is: how to get it?
It is a really common question and, as surprising as it may seem, it is asked by both men and women. Many other people do not admit that they would like to have sexual fantasies. However, this may be due to a lack of knowledge about this concept.
The sexual fantasiesThey are not unsatisfied desires nor should they be understood as sexual failures, because they are not behaviors or ideas that we should carry out. They are simply a set of thoughts, intertwined images and desires that, no matter how irrational and surreal they may seem, we want to use to fantasize and feel excited while we daydream.
How to use fantasies to feed sexual desire?
To build erotic fantasies we can use audiovisual material, erotic and/or pornographic videos, but it is also possible to use stories Far from wanting to fall into the world of conventional pornography, where sex constructed by and for men appears (incredible bodies, hypermuscled, covered in oil and performing hard and eternal sexual behaviors…) here you can find some examples of more realistic erotica , beautiful and full of those flashes of passion that we look for in our fantasies.
1. X-art: erotic films that are works of art
X-art is a French production company where each frame is a romantic tapestry, simple and beautiful The image is tenuous and the encounters between the bodies become eternal. It meets our expectation of prolonging the moment of passion with kisses and tenderness, which has an impact on the potential of these films as a source of sexual desire.
2 ANDErika Lust: normal guys who also know how to seduce
Erika Lust She is the pioneer of erotica for women, addressing the needs that are so often claimed in bed and that are finally captured in porn. On her official Facebook page she presents those gods and goddesses of pleasure, they are boys and girls that we could find on the street and could be our lovers Handsome, stylish, and above all eager to activate your most hidden fantasies.
With the use of words we can imagine much more than we believe and we can visualize each scene and each dialogue as if we were the protagonists of the story. That is why, if you like reading more, you can always use the narrative material that you can find in erotic stories of all kinds. Many of these texts will make nighttime reading lovers hooked on their pages.
Resources to improve your sex life
Another option we have to feel more hungry and fuel sexual desire is to like and feel desired So I encourage you to think about how you could change something about your appearance, clothes, lingerie, makeup, hair, accessories… whatever it takes to feel sexier. Do you dare to choose a change and make it? What reaction are you going to generate in the other? Looking at ourselves with different eyes helps to raise our self-esteem and eroticize sexual encounters to increase libido. But, also, if we feel good, others will also see us as more attractive.
There is no better way to feel desired than to look at your partner and see how they look at you!
