The relationship with the partner It may be, in some cases, an ideal scenario for this phenomenon to manifest itself. In the following lines you can find 30 signs that indicate that you may be suffering emotional abuse.
1. Exercise control over your social networks and your mobile phone
Emotional abuse includes control over your social networks and mobile phone, in order to know what you do with your life at all times
2. Control what you spend
That control also extends to what you spend. Exercising control over your finances is a way to keep yourself from moving forward If you ask your partner for permission to buy you something, they are emotionally abusing you.
3. You inform him of your schedules
You don’t feel good when you don’t let him know your schedules for fear that he will get angry or that he will blame you
4. It tells you what to wear and what to wear
Emotional abuse reaches the point where the abuser prohibits (without having to use force) the victim from wearing clothing. He tells her what to wear.
5. He doesn’t take kindly to you spending time with friends
When taking control of your social media and your phone, what the emotional abuser really wants is to limit your interaction with other people and prevent you from spending time with your friends.
6. You don’t feel well when you get sick
The emotional abuser can make you feel guilty even in situations where you are not to blame
7. It makes you feel like you’re worthless.
He criticizes you and makes you believe that without your partner you are nothing. It makes you feel emotionally dependent on your partner.
8. Do you have intimate relationships with that person because you fear that he or she will get angry if you don’t?
The emotional abuser can exert great influence by blaming you for not getting his way.
17. Your partner often blackmails you to achieve his goals
Your partner uses emotional blackmail to get his way.
18. You need constant approval
When you do something, you need your partner’s approval to feel good.
19. He makes you feel guilty, over and over again, for the mistakes you make.
Human beings make mistakes and we learn from mistakes. But if your partner constantly blames you for past mistakes, he or she is emotionally abusing you.
20. You don’t talk to others about your partner
Being afraid of your partner’s reaction, you avoid talking about conflicts in your relationship
21. You don’t dare say some things to your partner
You are also afraid to talk openly with your partner because of their way of taking things.
22. You are afraid to be yourself
To avoid arguments, you behave differently from how you really are.
23. You cannot be yourself even if your partner is not present.
You stop doing things even if your partner is not there because You think I wouldn’t approve
24. He treats you as if you were a son more than a couple
His way of treating you is based on obedience, as if you were a son instead of a partner.
25. You feel bad when someone of the opposite sex looks at you
You feel uncomfortable when someone of the opposite sex looks at you, without any interest
26. Value other people more
When someone does something that you have done, they value it more.
27. Does not take your opinion into account even in important decisions
He doesn’t care about your opinion or about those things that affect both of you.
28. You doubt yourself because of how he/she treats you
You doubt your capabilities and abilities because of the way your partner treats you.
29. He addresses you in an imperative manner
His tone when addressing you is imperative, that is, orderly.
30. He makes you looks of contempt and inferiority
