The search for pleasure is one of the main objectives of human beings, and sexual pleasure is no exception. In fact, sexual satisfaction is closely related to the well-being of the couple, as we commented in our article “Does having a lot of sex make couples happier?”
However, over the years, monotony and a decrease in dedication to the couple’s sexual needs can cause their satisfaction to be affected.
Masturbation is a good alternative to increase sexual pleasure in intimate relationships and has its advantages and benefits.
And since some men may wonder how to masturbate a woman properly, In this article we have prepared a list of 19 steps to answer this question They are the following.
1. Locate the clitoris
Despite having different sexual organs, both men and women can have really pleasurable orgasms. Now, while the penis only has one pathway to transport sensations to the brain, the female genital tract has three or four. Without a doubt, the best known is the clitoris : a small, fleshy body found in the highest part of the vulva.
Stimulating the clitoris correctly can lead women to experience extremely pleasant sensations. Now, it is necessary to know how to do it, and not stimulate directly if there is not enough excitement.
2. And the G spot
There is a lot of talk about the G-spot, and surely everyone knows that it is a woman’s magic button The G-spot is still the internal part of the clitoris as research indicates, so it is an area that we must stimulate if we want to masturbate a woman correctly.
To locate it, it is necessary to insert the finger with the nail face down and, once inside, lift the tip so that the finger is hooked. Then, you will detect a protruding area inside, a kind of button.
3. Stimulate both at the same time
To increase the pleasurable sensations, it is possible to play with both hands (or even with just one) to stimulate both the external clitoris and the G-spot. Sensations to the limit if you can perform a combined movement.
4. Don’t just focus on the clitoris
Now, in the vagina there are other erogenous zones, so you can experience what sensations touching them produces. Surely the person you are having intimate relationships with can give you feedback about what they like
5. Explore the body
To produce more pleasurable stimulation, it is important to know that there are other erogenous zones that can be stimulated. For example, While you stimulate the clitoris, the neck can be a great ally to increase sensations Also stimulate the anal area. It is important to think about the body as a whole, as it is a great treasure in its entirety.
When masturbating a woman, It is ideal to use some lubricant, this increases pleasure and avoids pain 50 percent in a recent survey said lubrication helped them achieve orgasm,
7. Invest in a sex toy
Masturbation not only includes fingers, but It is possible to do it with other objects, for example, with vibrators There are many on the market, so you can do your research before choosing one.
8. Or maybe two
One sex toy can be a good alternative, but two is even better. Don’t cut yourself and use them at the same time Orgasm can be even more pleasurable.
9. Play with the environment
The place where you perform masturbation can also be decisive in promoting a climate of trust and relaxation. Perhaps you can decorate the room with candles and induce relaxation with music that invites you to let yourself go.
10. Get to know the other person
Take your time to get to know the other person, because not everyone has the same tastes.
11. Maintain communication
So you can ask him directly and maintain fluid communication In this way it is possible to improve things and achieve much more intense sensations.
12. Be gentle and increase the intensity progressively
We may think that by giving more intensity we will achieve greater orgasms, but the truth is that increasing the intensity is ideal. In fact, A very useful technique is to delay the climax
13. Vary touch and movement
Make circular movements, in a straight line, rub, massage, blow In other words, it varies the movements and touch on the clitoris and other erogenous zones. This can help create very pleasant sensations.
Nipples, like genitals, have many nerve endings that help increase arousal feminine. However, many men do not know how to take advantage of it, because they are too abrupt. In this erogenous zone, it is important to be delicate.
15. Use your imagination and get lost in the present
These tips can be very useful, but the key is to get lost in the moment , connect with the other person and understand the situation of that moment. Therefore, pay attention to what is happening between you and focus on what you are doing.
16. Try other places
Although I have commented before that it is necessary to create a climate conducive to intimate relationships, you don’t just have to think about the room. It is possible to be creative or look for other places that can stimulate the senses, for example, in the bathtub
17. Try different games
It is also possible to try different games or positions or add stimuli to sexual play, for example, by adding ice, since cold can intensify the sensations.
18. Try different positions
Masturbation can also be carried out from different positions Therefore, you do not have to have a closed mentality, and it is possible to attack from different angles.
19. Don’t stop, keep going…
Women can have multiple orgasms That is, they can have a sequence of orgasms one after the other without having to go through the resolution stage. Therefore, even if you think you are at the climax, don’t stop and continue…
