The exciting flirting situation, the butterflies in your stomach when you see her, the nerves when you meet her, the wonderful feeling of being reciprocated… the fantastic experience of flirting! The truth is that this ritual is a whole world and not half of the time it is so easy, nor do the events live up to our expectations.
If you want to ensure success, in this PsychologyFor article, we explain How to seduce a woman , or rather how to flirt with a woman so that next times you are less lost. Discover the best tips to make her fall in love with her!
We know that there are many situations in which you can find yourself to flirt and the techniques and rules may vary in each of them. One of the most common contexts where this happens is the nightclub. If a girl catches your attention so much at a club and you would like to try something, here are some tips:
Establish eye contact We should never underestimate the power of non-verbal communication in these situations. But that doesn’t mean you stare at her all the time like a psychopath.
Smile The smile has to be rather mischievous, otherwise he may get scared. The response after this “play” is essential: if he puts on a poker face, turns around, pretends he hasn’t seen you, etc., I’m sorry, game over. She’s not interested. On the other hand, if he looks back at you and smiles mischievously, he probably is and you can proceed to the next step.
Interact Approach him and politely ask him if he wants to dance or go to the bar for a drink. If you answer no, game over, but if she says yes, be nice and let her decide what distance she feels most comfortable at. Talk, laugh with her. Here you will find information on How to communicate better with a woman.
Come closer If the chemistry is flowing, in one of those silences where the sexual tension is so evident that you can even smell the hormones for miles, go for it! (if it hasn’t been released before). If you are a shy person, perhaps you are interested in how to manage shyness when interacting with women.
How to make a woman fall in love
Love is one of the most beautiful things in the world. Therefore, being in love with someone who loves us is one of the best feelings in the universe. But when we don’t know if that person feels the same as us, nerves, insecurities, doubts begin… but also illusions, hopes… and with all innocence we ask ourselves. How do I make her fall in love?
Fortunately or unfortunately, there is no master formula to make a woman fall in love with you. It doesn’t always happen and as that Allo Darlin’ song said: “The hardest lesson we ever have to learn is when those we love don’t love us back.”. Falling in love is a consequence, not an end, but still, some tips that can help you to function better when you are with that person you would like to fall in love with:
Love yourself Being good with yourself is essential to being good with others. Furthermore, by being well you project more confidence, security and establish healthier relationships. In the following article you will find How to work on self-esteem.
Be yourself You don’t need to pretend anything, because if he falls in love, you want him to fall in love with you, not with someone you’re not.
Take care of the relationship How to like a woman? Be genuinely interested in her, listen to her, congratulate her on her achievements, propose plans that you both like, etc. Sharing pleasant moments helps strengthen the bond and awakens mutual positive emotions (good humor, complicity, tenderness, optimism, well-being, eroticism, fun, etc.).
Respect her It seems very obvious, right? Well, just in case. Because here it is not only respect as we normally know it (not making humiliating comments, giving offensive opinions, etc.), but also respecting their space and times. That means that if one day he doesn’t want to meet you, for example, Don’t let your insecurity and frustration make her feel bad : You have every right, it is not the end of the world and it is not a definitive rejection. In addition, it may happen that later he feels less eager to meet you or that you don’t know if he meets you for pleasure or to avoid reproaches.
How to conquer a shy, difficult or distrustful woman
Flirting or falling in love with a shy, “difficult” or distrustful woman requires the same steps that you have read so far. Because to flirt with her, she first has to like you too, so it doesn’t matter if she’s shy, “difficult”, or distrustful at first. And falling in love, as we have said, is a consequence, so the same. Although the advice is the same and the sensitivity has to be high, we can make some qualifications:
Have initiative If the person is shy, it is very helpful if you take the initiative, ask questions, show interest, make them laugh, etc.
Be patient If the person is distrustful, don’t go too quickly, bring up more banal topics of conversation at first, talk to them about yourself, and as you get to know each other, the distrust will disappear.
Do not insist If you meet a “difficult” woman, she is simply not interested.
And remember, loving is the most beautiful thing there is, falling in love with someone is the most fantastic, but in the relationship you must take care of each other and both of you must fall in love. And most importantly, as the Dalai Lama said: ““The best relationship is one in which the love for each person exceeds the need for the other.”
This article is merely informative, at PsychologyFor we do not have the power to make a diagnosis or recommend a treatment. We invite you to go to a psychologist to treat your particular case.
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