Do you and your partner spend little time together? In this article we give you some tips so that you can enjoy time together.
After a long day at work, we come home in the afternoon so tired that we end up falling asleep on the couch. If we don’t live with our partner, spending time together during the week is quite difficult. The causes are so many that we could be listing them and never end.
The crucial question is this: can’t you and your partner find a way to see each other enough? Is the free time you spend together little, and is this starting to be a problem? Let’s stop for a moment to think about these questions.
It is normal that within a couple it is difficult to find free time that coincides with that of the other person, but there has to be some way to find valid alternatives to achieve it, such as taking a “getaway” on the weekend or trying to Look for spaces during the week to meet and compensate for that lack of time, even if it’s just an hour!
Is it essential to see each other every day to love each other?
Quantity or quality? We are not going to go into the merit – at least, not too much -, since it is a completely subjective assessment; There is no doubt that every couple is different and their relationship is totally unique. Surely it is also a question of character (there are those who do not need to see much, and others who are more “clingy”).
However, in general, we can see it this way: a couple who see each other little does not have time to get bored and opt for quality and intensity to enjoy the time they spend together. In this way, they tend to give more value to small things and the person they are close to, without taking anything for granted. We must not forget that routine destroys many couples.
The concern comes when they really see little of each other and are not willing to find time to share. But if the interest is mutual, the time you spend together (even if it is little) will be precious and important.
Some ideas to spend more time as a couple
Normally the problem is not loving each other but finding a way to say it and show it. The frenzy, work, children, the gym, hobbies and friends can take up time in your life as a couple. Below, we propose some tips to make the most of the time we have together.
Do sports together. Why not? If you both have the same passions, sharing them can be a good idea.
Organize dinners at home During the week there are days when we don’t feel like going out, so why not do something special within the four walls of our house?
How would you like to recreate your first date?
Enjoy the little free time you have no matter how little, it doesn’t matter!
Organize a vacation , a weekend or a day out. You can propose to do it at least once a month.
Plan commitments better Was there a time when you did a lot of things together, like going to the movies or the theater? Get back that habit.
Remember that it is always good to maintain a balanced relationship in which the two members of the couple complement each other without crossing personal limits: that is synonymous with maturity.
