You may be going through this situation or you may have a relationship that is not going as you thought. Perhaps these words will help guide you.
Falling in love and meeting the right person to share your life is not about time, but about feelings. There is no specific age or general guidelines for everyone, simply, when you are getting to know someone through friendship, affinity, situations that are pleasant for you, they are already starting a relationship, you want to give them a last name. couple Ok, the label is yours, but in reality it is a relationship between two like-minded people.
Live those relationships with joy, and the path itself will tell you both if you want to go to another level, while enjoying sharing activities, outings, and pleasant situations in your life. If you start something with the sole expectation that it has to be your partner at the end of the journey, that attitude will fuel frustration and with it, something sadder, the obligation to fulfill what you want with intensity. Something that unfortunately, you must understand that having or living a relationship will always depend on both of you and being comfortable enjoying both of you, simply by the fact of living that time shared by both of you, how long it has to last, it is not known, how it has to be. It is not known either, what is known for sure is that you are living it or you are living it and enjoying that moment.
The despair and everything is worth it for you to be with me, it should not be your focus in this life. Experiencing pleasant emotions is an easier path. Feeling supported and fulfilled with that person by your side, fulfilling yourself and supporting the other in their full fulfillment. It is always a matter of two, it is a matter of adding, it is a matter of contributing something bigger than your loneliness. Endure and resign yourself when you have already achieved it, you must take care of it. Sharing your life with someone who destroys or manipulates you is what you should avoid for mental and emotional health.
A desired solitude is preferable in many cases to an obligatory company. Nothing and no one remains or should remain by your side beyond the time that you and the other want and are healthy. You have to try many dishes before reaching the true and definitive one, you must keep that in mind, experimenting is what it’s up to at your age.
Simply live the shared moments because you will remember those for a lifetime.
