Do you think that the love for your partner has ended? Find the keys to know when a relationship may have ended.
“Assuming a commitment as a couple does not necessarily mean lasting forever.”
It is important to know that in a Relationship There are never “eternal duration” guarantees. Therefore, today we will talk about what usually happens when love ends or disappears. It is not easy to come to the conclusion that love is over. It is not easy to accept this reality with courage. However, when you are alone with yourself, in the privacy of your thoughts, you are aware of reality. Especially because this certainty lasts over time.
Person strives for loving the other, but it is increasingly impossible to do so. They usually have phrases like “I make the effort to love him, but I no longer feel the same“. Or when the couple feels that they love them like a brother, like a family member, but there are no other pillars for it to work as a relationship. This would be a bad indicator. Relationships that do not work, but try to maintain themselves with an extra effort in time, are relationships that will harm the physical and emotional health of the person.
Therapists witness how many patients in consultation tell us about situations in which they get depressed about having to get home, or confess to us that when they get into their cars after leaving work they drive at minimum speeds to arrive as late as possible. possible. And when they arrive they just want to shower, go to sleep, get up early and go out. So, there are many reasons for a Relationship go through these crises, and have stopped feeling that love that you previously felt for your partner.
Here we include libido, that emotional and passionate charge It is said that every person needs to pour this burden of life onto objects. So, in this case the “object”, that person, no longer serves to influence libido or affection for some reason. You have taken away that exclusivity. And now, you want to pour it into other people such as friends, family of origin, children or objects such as work, study, etc.
Person focuses more on his activities that in the couple, he or she is no longer interested even if he or she chats with others, he or she already feels that talking to him or her is not worth it, it bores him or her. He is thinking rather when she is going to start her activities by cutting off the conversation with the other.
2. The presence of the other is not tolerated
This is another bad indicator, and it means that everything the couple does is already unpleasant. So, for example, things that didn’t mean something before now begin to mean something, like smell. You feel that he has a smell that you don’t like very much, his breath bothers you, how he eats bothers you, if he makes sounds, his laughter bothers you, you notice the mess, etc., looking for some excuse to complain to him because you can’t. put up with or tolerate that frustration that generates you.
He anger What you begin to feel with yourself, now you project it onto your partner. For example, you often say “please get straight to the point”, you want him to summarize what he is saying. It bothers you if your partner asks you two or three times, and you tell them “don’t ask me so much, I already told you once, and that’s it.” Snubs like these! Here there is a physical distancing, for example, you can see that they no longer like holding hands. Nor assume responsibilities for purchasing properties with that person you no longer love, because you cannot imagine a future with them. And yet, you express “I love you” out of commitment. When you don’t love your partner, but you’re afraid to live with them.
3. There is never time for the relationship, it is not available
Your partner is no longer your priority! You no longer have time for her or him, nor the relationship. For example, we can often see relationships in which work is more important, and it turns out that the schedule is very tight, therefore, there is no time for the couple She may even call him to ask for medication and the other person may refuse to look for it because she feels that he has other things to do, or in a conversation with friends he no longer even mentions the couple. Or when he gets home, he goes to sleep or listen to music because he is uncomfortable having to talk to his partner, and you prefer his space. Love is already ending here!
When these happen situations within the couple Before looking for other people and committing infidelity, the best thing to do is to try to clarify things with your partner, trying to exhaust all possible mechanisms, but if even so, the relationship has no objections, it is best to choose with total courage and maturity, separation on good terms.
