Like a kind of printing press or erotic code of our human essence, throughout our lives we develop a favorite type of erotic language, almost always unconscious, based on environmental, surrounding, cultural, personality, family and even religious factors which They almost always stay in our sexual trunk when we relate to pleasure, we tend to recognize them, expose them and give them life when we observe or reveal our sexual fantasies, there the great desires and desires are protected.
Some confuse them with sexual archetypes. And although it seems, There is no one-size-fits-all approach to arousal, the pathways that lubricate our relationship with pleasure begin to emerge as a personal identity when we allow experiences and curiosity to allow us to embrace joy in freedom
Each human being has a personality and an erotic language that they nourish or modify over time, with individual and couple experiences, even cultural ones, so it is wrong to think that sexual excitement is awakened in all of us with the same thing.
Do you know your sexual personality or your main erotic language?
Therefore, it is a big mistake to assimilate that the same touches, the same practices, would have to be “excitingly appropriate” for everyone. Even sexual dynamics as a couple are easily predictable, we assume that our partner or ourselves always likes it the same way, and so we always do it that way
We stay in the uncomfortable zone of security or comfort: “We already know each other…” When many times our fantasies have not even been revealed when they share quality time. So, time passes and they were never able to combine sexually but they maintain the relationship through marriage, out of custom, out of simple habit. And sexuality as a couple becomes another semiannual obligation, or disloyalties, infidelities, etc. enter, just due to lack of communication, trust and even curiosity.
Have you ever wondered why, despite having a deep attraction with someone, you couldn’t understand each other in bed? Were you with someone without emotional commitment but the sexual moment was unforgettable? Have you reflected on what ignites your arousal? And what turns you off? What is that fantasy that you haven’t confessed to anyone? What do your desires hide?
What are erotic blueprints?
The Erotic Blueprints were studied by Somatic Sexologist Jaiya, also a disciple of Joseph Kramer, for two decades to find what turns people on as a predominant erotic language or a language plane of individual sexual arousal which have their “lights and shadows” as well as the languages of love, we have the possibility of learning to communicate and integrate all other erotic languages as a possibility of amplifying the sexual experience, communication, the ability to experience love. pleasure, creativity, consensus, etc. which were classified into five (5) different types, according to the definition of each language established by Jaiya:
To know your erotic language, you need to take a short quiz which you can ask your Sex coach, Somatic Sexual Educator or Certified Erotic Blueprint Coach.
