We are eager to carry out activities such as starting or continuing with loving, sentimental and sexual relationships.
The de-escalation A new phase begins this week and activities will begin to resume in many parts of Spain. We are eager to carry out activities such as starting or continuing with loving, sentimental and sexual relationships.
So another area to take into account in the health of citizens is how confinement also has altered the sexual lives of many
During the pandemic Many couples have seen their routines modified in terms of their relationships, especially those who live apart. They have been “forbidden” to see each other, and we already know that everything that has the “forbidden” label has the power of attraction, so it may be that the desire for the other has increased.
They had to search alternatives to sex make more phone calls or make videoconferences , conversations that have surely revolved around the activities they will do together after confinement. Fantasizing about what they can do when they meet again, taking advantage of lost time are ideas that can feed sexual desire and stimulate libido Lack of accessibility fuels sexual desire!
Some of the couples who have lived apart have practiced one of the recent phenomena called “sexting ” which consists of sharing fantasies and communicating sexually through technology. Although sexting can have negative aspects related to people’s exposure to social networks, which is not always safe, it can also have its positive side since it allows these couples who have had to be separated to make an effort to improve their communication. loving, face your eroticism in a different way. We do not yet know if this new way of relating will be a temporary or lasting phenomenon. Although I think it is here to stay.
You will hear about sexual practices such as petting, oral sex, masturbation or intercourse, some will be more attractive to you and perhaps even some will cause you some rejection. But it is important to know that you, and only you, are the one who decides how to enjoy sexuality and agree with your partner.
On the other hand, we must also take into account the experts’ recommendations for sex after quarantine such as “limit kisses with tongue” or avoid face-to-face positions to. According to these recommendations, during this period of deconfinement, special attention must be paid to lingual kisses, since the highest concentration of the virus is in saliva.
But how can we forget that sexual activity improves anxiety, mood and defenses? In this case, kisses are the most direct, perfect and discreet expression of love there is and can cause the most fiery nights of passion.
Tips to increase sexual desire:
Tell each other erotic fantasies
Touch the other with words, with gestures, with music
Create interesting expectations
Try new positions
Increase and decrease rhythms, pressure of the genitals.
Incorporate erotic toys
Talk “dirty” from the heart
But above all, to fully experience sex after confinement, it is necessary to take care of the aspects of the relationship that are also important, such as complicity, intimacy, connection and affection.
