The Importance Of Consistency When Accompanying The Client
Let’s start from the definition of the term “coherence”: it is any fact carried out in the approach of thinking, feeling and acting according to its principles and values. How many of the therapists, psychologists, coaches and other specialties act according to their personal coherence?
It is a complex issue to resolve; However, in many of the situations in which help is sought from a professional, certain training, empathy and other types of characteristics are required to be able to resolve the alteration that brings the person to consultation, which in some cases also affects to the professional and this He hasn’t even been able to solve it properly in his life
Distinguishing these types of patterns is not an easy thing, but as people who act in favor of others, we should do a constant self-assessment of the problem posed by the client and ask ourselves if this vocation is truly in service to others or, on the contrary, simple salary remuneration.
The true meaning of offering coaching services is not based only on the desperation to search for a title or profession that will get us out of our discomforts, please our family members, or the typical “this vocation is usually easy”, but rather integrate the true passion that It lies within ourselves, in our essence and in the true purpose of being guides in the processes of each person.
The purpose is what moves us to fulfill our functions without hurting or aggravating the client’s problem. Can we imagine, yes in some cases where what we recommend is not appropriate for our consultant which harms the person or intensifies a type of symptom that did not require said treatment?
Knowing how to say “no” and delegate to another professional what in our perception we are unable to carry out, is also part of our good practice. The key is to be aware that perhaps we cannot serve everyone who comes to us in the way they really need.
Knowing our limits
Nowadays, both values ​​and principles are of discontinued use in different areas of our society, where an increase in their importance is currently reflected in fields such as personal or spiritual development… Why does this happen?
As are processes in which knowledge is managed with approaches of self-realization, introspection and paths of truth they allow us to teach and implement again what we have lost at some point through certain limiting beliefs.
Therefore, starting from the premise of coherence, if we start being the 1% or more that exemplifies these types of concepts through our actions in all areas of life, we can make a certain difference when it comes to both user and professional understand the importance of the use of these types of terms in our collective healing and how significant they are, not only for our individual advancement, but also in our community.
In the field of psychological support or through coaching and everything that it encompasses, not only must the tools, advice, treatment, approach and everything that concerns be given to carry out the proper solution, but one must also act in the most suitable as possible, assuming that We are also human beings with wounds to heal and if these are still open… With what criteria do we recommend to another being about what we ourselves have not been able to resolve?
The importance of honesty is key, a value that today may seem lost, but which is a fundamental piece so that each person has the possibility of growing, healing and establishing the path that best takes them towards their personal self-realization.
