Everything in our life is based on choices Choices can be made for many reasons, some of them are economic, comfort, desires or feelings.
Whatever it is, it becomes an engine to move us and move forward, whether we make mistakes or not. Sometimes we move along a path that is not the easiest or in the right direction or that we had not thought of at first, but, despite the difficulties, we always find a moment to ask ourselves: How did I get here? How did I end up in this job that I like so much? Who would have told me that I would end up with that person I had known for a long time?
The decisions we are making are leading us to where we are now However, what is really true and necessary is the movement, the change, the evolution of position, as happens in chess.
These choices range from small things, such as what we are going to eat today or what clothes we wear, to more relevant choices such as what we would like to work on, what we want to occupy our time with on Sunday afternoons or who we want by our side. When you reach a certain age, there is a moment when you realize what it is that makes you happy. and what you want to invest your energies in. As we know, and as many Spanish sayings say, experiences have to be lived firsthand to learn them.
As we have been told so many times, throughout our lives we are going to experience hundreds of new things, pleasant and/or unpleasant but always instructive. Therefore, as sunsets are added to our vital calendar, we acquire knowledge that will be added to our experiential library. Our brain tends to remember positive experiences and “draw a thick veil” over those memories or situations that have harmed us for some reason.
Stop and think for a moment about the people around you, if you are proud that they are part of your day to day, month to month or year to year. As Carlos Miguel Cortés very well says, forever It is not a question of time but of intensity. There are people who pass through your life for a time and accompany you in thought throughout your life, on the other hand, people that you have in your daily life who end up diluting with the passage of time.
Therefore, you must think about whether the people you currently have in your life are chosen to be there, if they enrich your experiences, if they give you unforgettable moments, if they make you be in harmony or, on the contrary, if when you need them they revolutionize you and They make your way of seeing things change for the better.
Choose to grow as people
At this point, we can say:
I choose you, to be in my life. I choose you every day deliberately and freely, without ties. I choose you being aware that nothing lasts forever (or it does) and that one day you may not choose me. Simply knowing that you share your time with me because you care. I choose you because I feel that I want you to be part of my time and my experiences. I choose you because I think I can be a better person with this choice, with these companies that stay with me over time. That’s why I can tell you that the people who are in my life currently are not part of chance, each of them is for some reason.
