What Happens If A Narcissist Sees You Too Strong And Without Weakness

To explain to you what the narcissistic personality consists of correctly, I am going to refer to the definition provided by the DSM-V. Narcissistic people are characterized by having a dominant pattern of grandeur, a continuous need for admiration in addition to a lack of empathy.

This behavior has its beginnings in the early stages of adult life. If you want to know more, you can read its characteristics in: Characteristics of narcissistic personality disorder. However, I will show you how they proceed to get your full attention and enter your life to manipulate you:

• The seduction game : Narcissistic people tend to act and behave in a quite characteristic way. Although they differ in their strategies to be the center of attention, they usually have quite similar objectives. To get the attention of the person they are interested in, they usually act through a very seductive personality (even when it is not an attempt to conquer romantically).
• Appearance care : They are characterized by being talkative and charming, which makes it easy for them to win over others easily.
• The social acclaim : as a result of their idea of ​​personal grandeur they act trying to be the best at everything going so far as to humiliate people they consider friends.
• The rejection of criticism : They do not accept any criticism, since that would imply that they are not as perfect as they believe and, in turn, in the few times they talk about others, it will be to belittle and humiliate them.

These characteristics make the people around them gradually realize their true personality and tend to want to distance themselves from them. As for romantic relationships, here you will find How a narcissist in love acts.

Due to the excessive need for attention and feelings of grandeur and arrogance, these people they feel really frustrated when they are rejected by someone around them. This implies that, when you already know who they are, do not succumb to their manipulations, empower yourself and always prioritize your well-being. You are a strong person without weakness, that is, infertile ground for the narcissist, since it cannot use you as fuel

The pathological narcissist has a concept of superiority compared to other individuals, so he thinks that being part of his life is a privilege that the other person has for which he should be grateful. They tend to consider that, as a result of this privilege, other individuals must be indebted to them and that is why they cannot conceive of anyone rejecting them at any time.

It must be taken into account to understand their behavior that these people lack their own identity, but rather they act and represent themselves as they believe they have to to project greatness. That is why, if at any time they feel that they are rejected, if they see that you are strong and without weakness to succumb to their games, they can react in the following ways:

• Fear : the image created by them is shaky, since they have the idea that they are going to be unmasked in front of the rest of society.
• Frustration : Because they tend to want to associate with high-status people, if one of them rejects them, the first thing they think is that they have failed. Something inside them is activated making them think that they are not perfect and that they have failed in their life.
• Rage : faced with these feelings they tend to act aggressively and with great fury with the sole purpose of demonstrating that he is better than the person who rejected him and thus repairing the damage to his ego.

What if a narcissist sees you as too strong and without weakness? Relating to a narcissist can be somewhat dangerous if at some point he feels ignored or that his strategies to get you to fall into his network do not bear fruit; even if all you do is not answer a call from him or not respond to a message instantly.

Although this may seem extreme to you, it is completely true, because as a result of their high ego, these people consider that other people must always be at their disposal, with the sole purpose of meeting their demands. That is why, at the slightest hint of feeling ignored, they will feel hurt and indignant coming to harbor feelings of anger and hatred towards the person who has ignored them.

Narcissists believe that they have the right to direct and control the lives of those around them, in addition to feeling the need to monopolize their attention. Therefore, when someone ignores them, they feel their narcissistic ego completely hurt.

People with narcissistic personalities tend to be very spiteful and disrespectful with people who feel they have failed them. However, they can act in two different ways when faced with the fact of feeling ignored by someone, I will show you them below:

What happens when you ignore a narcissist who doesn’t want to maintain the relationship

If you ignore a narcissist while he ignores you, what will happen? On the one hand, if the person who ignores them has no value for them or is someone from whom they know they cannot get more out of their relationship, it will not take long for them to forget about them and turn the page Well, for them, the important thing about interpersonal interactions is not the friendship itself, but the benefit they can obtain from them.

What happens when you ignore a narcissist who does want to maintain the relationship

On the contrary, if the narcissist wants to continue maintaining contact with the other person and is not ready to let them go, they will try by all means to change their mind:

• Harassment : can reach extreme limits by touching, or directly having, what is usually known as harassing behavior as it will begin behaviors of continuous calls, repeated attempts to meet and see the other person.
• Lies : But to this second type of obsessive behavior towards the person who ignores it, another attitude of the narcissist is created in parallel towards the rest of society, where will attempt to demonstrate that it is he or she who has decided to break up with that relationship
• Smear campaign : This is because in his mind he cannot allow the rest of the world to find out that he has been rejected, as he considers this to be a humiliation. Therefore he will try to destroy the image of the other person before others, even though they try to recover it from behind.

And now I will explain to you Why narcissists can’t stop seeing their exes : Although it may seem somewhat extreme, for a narcissist a romantic relationship is never completely closed, because they think that people are their property and that therefore they have the right to return to their lives whenever they want.

It is true that for a short period of time they will “forget” the other person and may even come to hate them if they are the one who has ended their relationship. However, over time they will wish reappear in the other person’s life , but be careful, because many of these reappearances have the objective of harming the individual, since they already hold resentment towards them inside. Here you will find more information about the Characteristics of a Covert Narcissist.

This article is merely informative, at PsychologyFor we do not have the power to make a diagnosis or recommend a treatment. We invite you to go to a psychologist to treat your particular case.

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