105 Intimate Questions To Get To Know Your Partner Better
Psychologists are professionals who have always been interested in learning more about the personality and behavior of individuals. However, sometimes, normal people also act as psychologists in their own lives, analyzing the behavior of the people with whom they interact or have some type of relationship
This happens especially when we are meeting new people, and of course, when we decide to start a romantic relationship with someone We like to know about your life, what it is like and your needs and tastes. If everything works out, we will spend the rest of our lives by his side.
And of course, we all like to know if that special person shares our values, is passionate in intimate relationships or if they are a good or bad person with others. Therefore, in this article, we present a list of questions that will provide you with valuable information about what your partner is like.
Now, it is not about using all these questions to analyze your love partner scrupulously and exhaustively But they are questions that can stimulate your intimate conversations and can allow you to get to know your loved one better if he or she opens his or her heart to you. So keep an eye on the following lines.
1. Describe your perfect day to me
We all have a different image of life, some people are more pessimistic and others more optimistic. Knowing the image your partner has of their ideal day can help you visualize what are the expectations what he has about it. In addition, this way you will also be able to know what their hobbies and interests are.
2. Do you think you can have intimate relationships with many people?
A question to get an idea of whether a person is conservative or rather liberal on the subject of intimate relationships.
3. What part of your body do you like the most?
Depending on the answer, it is possible to know if your partner feels secure or insecure about their own body.
4. And… Where would you go to live an adventure?
It allows you to get an idea of what type of exciting experiences attract the attention of your partner the most.
5. Do you have any intimate fantasies?
To get an idea of what your limits are regarding intimate moments.
7. What is most important to you in bed?
We all value some things or others. While some people have a good body as a priority, others prefer loving treatment.
8. What do you most like to do and have done to you in bed?
A question that talks about preferences in moments of maximum intimacy.
9. What don’t you like when making love?
There may be situations that seem too much for you. The best thing is to talk about it and understand each other.
10. What do you think is the key to enjoying making love?
Understanding how the person sees intimate relationships can be good for a better connection.
11. What do you value most in a partner?
Each of us looks for a series of qualities in our love partner. It’s okay to find out and know what the other person thinks.
12. Are you open to trying new things in your intimate relationships?
This shows whether the person has an open and flexible mind.
13. How many children do you want to have?
Although it may seem strange, there are people who do not want to have children. This information may be useful to you if you are a lover of children.
14. Do you have any taboos regarding intimate life?
In other words, you have some belief that prevents you from fully enjoying your sex life.
15. What do you think is your biggest insecurity when making love?
A direct way to know if the person is really not comfortable with their physique or feels some type of insecurity.
16. What importance do you give to the physique?
Many individuals value things such as, for example, loving treatment, stability, and intelligence. However, others value physical attractiveness more than any other quality.
17. How do you like sex and what points make you explode with pleasure?
It is always better for the other person to tell us themselves how we can please them. Communication is key to a satisfactory life as a couple.
18. What does sexual relations mean to you?
To know how important intimate moments of passion are or if you value other things about your partner.
19. What activity makes you most likely to have sex?
A direct way to know how you should approach the preliminaries.
20. What do you think feeds eroticism?
Maintaining eroticism in the couple is one of the keys to a lasting relationship.
21. What do you need from me right now?
A way to avoid misunderstandings. It is also useful to know if the person is dependent or if, on the contrary, they see their partner as a complement.
22. If you could make three wishes, what would they be?
This simple question can bring out your most intimate needs and thoughts. This way you can know more about your partner and their goals and objectives.
23. If you could go back, would you change anything about your life?
We have all made mistakes in our lives, sometimes causing wounds that have not healed. This question can lead us to know our partner more in depth.
24. Do you have any perversions you can share?
We all have thoughts about our intimacy that we would like to share with our partner.
25. What are the details that I have with you and remind you of how I feel about you?
It may be that we do something thinking that our partner will like it. However, it values other things. It’s good to know what they like and what they don’t.
26. What is your favorite hobby?
If you have been with the couple for a long time, you should already know the answer to this question. However, if you have just started the relationship, this can give you information about what your new love is passionate about.
27. What was or is your relationship with your mother or sisters?
You can learn how he gets along with other people, especially those closest to him.
28. What do you think about having friends of the opposite sex?
Depending on the answer to this question, you can understand whether you are a jealous person or not.
29. Where would you like to live?
We all have our own thoughts, hobbies, tastes. The place where we spend the rest of our lives can make us more or less happy.
30. What are your religious beliefs? Do you believe in something? Can you live with mine?
There are people who have very strong beliefs about something. In extreme cases, they can have serious prejudices for coexistence. It also shows whether the person is tolerant of the thoughts of others.
31. What would be a good title for your autobiography?
This will help you know what image the person has of themselves.
32. What do you think about having children? Would you have children with me?
Another question about having children, which helps to know your partner’s opinion on the matter.
33. Do you practice any sport or hobby? You like dancing?
If you are passionate about dancing and give it importance in your relationship, knowing if your partner shares your same tastes can ensure success or not in love.
34. What was your previous relationship like and why are you alone now?
It is always good to know the past and the reasons why your previous relationship did not go well.
35. What is your short-term and long-term life plan?
You are going to share your entire life with this person if love triumphs. So you are interested in knowing his future plans.
36. What four adjectives best describe you?
It helps you get an idea about how the other person sees themselves.
37. What is your least favorite mood?
This way you will know his concerns and quirks, and you will know if he is a brave or worried person.
38. What do you think of betrayal? Have you been betrayed or have you ever been betrayed?
You will be interested in knowing what your partner’s view of infidelities is. He is tolerant about it or it is all or nothing in this sense.
39. Are you a night person or a morning person?
If you are a nocturnal person and your partner is a morning person, it may be difficult for you to adjust to the schedule when living.
40. Do you like disorder or loud music? What kind of music do you prefer?
Music says a lot about people’s personalities. Although not always, you can know something more about the other person if they have very deep-rooted tastes.
41. What is your biggest fear?
We all have worries about something. The best thing is to know what they are and be able to face them together.
42. If money were no problem, what kind of life would you like to lead?
Obviously, money is important to live. This question gives you information about what your partner’s authentic desires are.
43. Do I offer you everything you need in a partner?
This question does not refer to whether or not you meet the couple’s expectations, but it gives you an understanding of what they want when they are with someone.
44. Can you tell me three things about my personality that you couldn’t live without?
It helps you understand what he likes most about you and what he values most about you.
45. Tell me what you would like to change about yourself and why
Whether they are traumas, complexes or bad experiences, sometimes people are not completely comfortable with their lives. Understand your partner in this sense.
46. What aspects would you like to improve our relationship?
Although it is sometimes difficult to recognize it, relationships can be improved. It’s good to know your partner’s opinion so you can change together.
47. If I could feel something that you feel, what would you choose?
A good way to empathize with the other person is thanks to this question.
48. What has been the best thing that has happened to you in your life?
Know first-hand what makes you happiest.
49. Where would you go to relax for a few days?
You can tell if your partner is calm or prone to being stressed. You can also find out if there is anything you can do to get him out of his routine.
50. What situations take you to the limit of desire?
In other words, what is most exciting about intimacy? An intimate but useful question.
51. What has been the hardest moment you have gone through?
To understand your partner’s emotions and behavior, it is often necessary to know more about his or her past.
52. What person has had a decisive influence on you?
By knowing who their models are, you can get an idea of their values.
53. What is your biggest dream?
To get an idea of your expectations. Are they realistic or not? Let him or her speak.
54. What do you understand by love?
Love is a complex phenomenon, which each person understands in their own way. Maybe you and your partner don’t think the same about a relationship.
55. When did you realize that you had entered adulthood?
A simple way to know if the person is mature or if, on the other hand, they have not matured yet.
56. What do you think creates intimacy?
A way to know the way in which the other person understands that special connection that unites two human beings.
57. Is there something everyone fears that you don’t?
Knowing unique aspects of the other person is something that can be achieved by talking about fears
58. Who were you closest with during your childhood?
An intimate question about early memories.
59. To which country would you travel on foot for love?
Interesting mystery, it helps to better understand the degree to which the other person considers themselves passionate.
60. Who do I remind you of?
A question that can generate very interesting answers.
61. Do you value friendship or love more?
This will allow you to discover some of their most deeply rooted values.
62. Are you more of a cat or dog person?
Each person has a clear preference for one of these two pets.
63. Has anything I’ve done or said ever made you uncomfortable?
You may not have recognized it at the time, but it can be a good opportunity to approach certain situations in a climate of trust.
64. What did you want to be when you were little?
Our childhood aspirations may or may not have been fulfilled.
65. Would you skydive?
To evaluate risk aversion.
66. What is your ideal prototype of a man or woman?
To know your tastes and preferences in depth.
67. Have you ever been bullied when you went to school or college?
Unfortunately, many people have suffered bullying at school. Talking about it can strengthen the bond between the couple.
68. Would you travel 1,000 km just to see me for a few hours?
The degree of sacrifice that can be made for someone we love is, at times, incredible.
69. What is the worst insult that has been uttered to you?
Maybe there is some weakness or some insecurity that can surface.
70. Do you think love is a cascade of neurochemicals, or is there something transcendental?
Ask a highly philosophical question to learn more details about your loved one’s worldview.
71. What part of your body do you like least?
By also asking about those parts of your body that you like least, we will learn about your self-perception and your insecurities.
72. What is friendship for you?
A question to find out what exactly our partner understands by the concept of friendship and what they specifically expect from it.
73. What is your favorite movie?
Movie tastes tell us a lot about what a person is like, and what kind of movies make them feel better or worse.
74. Who was your childhood idol?
Childhood is a very personal space that shapes who we are today, knowing about that period will also be useful to us.
75. Where do you see yourself in five years?
Asking about dreams and hopes, as well as the ambitions of the people we love, will also make us better couples.
76. Is there a song that reminds you of me?
Sometimes we can unconsciously associate a song with a specific person, including our partner.
77. Do you believe in life after death?
A question that, without a doubt, entails an interesting philosophical debate.
78. Do you have a good relationship with your parents?
Not all of us are lucky enough to get along with our parents, some people may have conflicts with them.
79. What do you think was your first conscious memory?
The first memories of life will mark us forever in later development.
80. Do you still have childhood friendships?
Maintaining friends from when we went to primary school or before is a good sign, since it indicates that in our childhood we grew up with a positive group of friends.
81. What is your favorite food?
For food lovers, culinary preferences are a given.
82. What do you eat when you are sad?
Some people have special eating habits when they feel sad or depressed.
83. What do you think about homosexuality?
Knowing what degree of tolerance our partner has will also help us give us an idea of what kind of person he or she is.
84. What nickname did your friends give you?
A special and intimate part of childhood, without a doubt.
85. Do you think you have become the person you wanted to become?
It may be a difficult question for some people to answer, but it will undoubtedly give us a lot of information about our partner.
86. What did you think of me when you met me?
It is always curious to know the first impression that person had when they met us. We can always tell funny anecdotes about it.
87. What would you take to a desert island?
A typical question, but one that will give us a lot of information about the priorities of the person we are living with.
88. What is your favorite smell?
Olfactory preferences are also an important and intimate part of people, and it is an area in which memory plays an important role.
89. What is your favorite sexual position?
A question that delves, once again, into our partner’s most intimate preferences.
90. Have you fantasized about any celebrities?
It has happened to all of us to have a more or less torrid fantasy with a celebrity from the world of entertainment or sports.
91. What was your favorite subject in school?
We will learn a lot by asking our partner which subjects they found most stimulating.
92. What movie makes you cry?
We all have movies that make us feel intense and special emotions, and that we only share with a select few.
93. At what age did you lose your virginity?
A question that may be sensitive, but at the same time will constitute one of the most personal confessions that a person can make to us.
94. What countries have you been to?
Some people love to visit new countries and live waiting for the next trip, knowing which countries they have been to will give us a lot of information.
95. Do you like to look at the stars?
A hobby that some people have who are attracted to the sky and who enjoy looking at the sky at night.
96. What do you think about adoption?
Another question that can be interesting and can help us a lot to get to know the person we love.
97. At what age did you first fall in love?
First love is never forgotten, so it will always remain engraved in our memory and will constitute an inseparable fact of who we are.
98. What do you think is your best quality?
Knowing the virtues and defects that the other person thinks they have is also an excellent way to get to know our better half.
99. What do you not like about me?
Asking the other person to value what they don’t like about us is also an important question, both for them and for us.
100. Have you had relations with someone of the same sex?
A curious and interesting question, which will undoubtedly reveal secrets that we could have ignored for a long time, about our partner.
101. What is the object you have at home that reminds you most of me?
The answers can be funny or can refer to a gift that refers to you.
102. Where do you think our relationship is going?
An open and open question to discover the intentions of that important person.
103. What business do you think we could create together?
There are couples who complement each other well when it comes to working, but for others it would be a very bad idea.
104. What concert couldn’t you go to without me?
Surely some artist is alluded to who is part of the soundtrack of both.
105. What city that we have never visited would you go with me?
To know your partner’s preferences in terms of tourism.
