We have all met at some point in a place and seen someone we really liked enter. And of course, when you experience the strange sensation that your heart races when you see that person you like so much, you feel a strong impulse to say something to them.
The phrases to seduce and flirt that you will find listed below can be useful for inspiration to start a conversation with a person you are attracted to, or to speak on intimate terms with someone with whom you want to be more than just friends.
But, What can you say to that person you just had a crush on? How can you break the ice and start a conversation with that person you meet every morning at the coffee shop? Below you can find a list of pick-up lines, some funny and others full of sincerity. They can be used to start talking face to face or to start a chat conversation in places such as private messages on social networks like Instagram.
First of all, you should know that these phrases will not always have an effect, because a lot has to do with whether the other person is attracted to you or the attitude you show when saying them. In any case, after reading these examples of phrases to seduce, you will find a section with several brief tips to make someone like you.
1. I just moved to the city, could you give me directions on how to get to your house?
A fun phrase to start a conversation. Afterwards… who knows?
2. Something tells me that if I don’t start a conversation with you now, I will regret it.
This is one of the best to break the ice and take the step of talking to someone you like; Furthermore, it is simple, direct and honest.
3. I don’t know how to kiss, could you teach me?
A very direct sentence But with the right person it can work.
4. Excuse me… eh… you’re so beautiful that I forgot what I was going to say
A funny phrase that could make the other person go along with you.
5. I’m not sure if I’m your type, but why don’t we give ourselves a chance to find out?
Many times, to connect with someone you don’t know well, it is better to maintain a humble and down-to-earth attitude, without assuming that the attraction you feel is reciprocated.
6. Until the moment I saw you, I didn’t believe in love at first sight.
One of the best short and fun phrases to seduce.
7. Surely we have many things in common, what do you think if we take the courage to find out?
19. Excuse me, is your name Google? It’s that in you I find everything I’m looking for
An original phrase to tell him that you love him.
20. You are so handsome that I forgot what I was going to tell you
You like that person so much that it’s hard for you to even concentrate.
21. Where do they sell the numbers to win this prize?
This is the biggest prize you can win. And you let him know…
22. I don’t know if you are a dream or reality, but if I’m dreaming I don’t want to wake up
Sometimes you come across people who make you daydream.
23. Has the sun just risen? Or have you smiled at me?
Another compliment about the smile There are smiles that stop the world.
24. What is a star doing flying so low?
A cheesy pickup line but it can work.
25. Tell your mother that I am dying because she is my mother-in-law
This is a fun, indirect way to show interest in someone.
26. I know I can’t fly, but there is someone who makes me feel like I can do it and that person is you
A phrase full of sincerity Sometimes it just takes that for the other person to realize that they like you.
27. Hello, I wanted to introduce myself because I liked/called attention to your (attribute)
A classic way to start a conversation This way she already knows that she likes you.
28. Hello, I wanted to know if, in addition to being attractive, you are also nice. You are?
In other words, you like the person physically. Now you want to know if they are also good people
29. Hello, I saw you and I couldn’t help but have to introduce myself. What is your name?
A phrase that may seem unoriginal but is full of meaning.
30. For a moment I thought I had died and entered heaven. But now I see that I am alive, and heaven has come to me.
A complete statement Life has a different color when that person is around.
31. Which animal do you like more: a duck or a penguin?
A phrase to leave you confused…but a different way to start a conversation
32. How’s the atmosphere huh… I’ve never come here blah blah blah… is this always like this?
Another phrase to break the ice Now, then you have to play your cards.
33. Do you have Facebook (Instagram, WhatsApp…)? I would like to add you to get to know you better
With all the sincerity in the world You ask him for Facebook and then you flirt calmly.
34. I love your eyes! I would like to see them again…
If you have special eyes, You can use them to tell her that you want to meet her or him
35. I love the song that is playing, do you know who it is by?
For when you are in a place with music This way you have a topic to start a conversation and an opportunity to start talking.
36. I’m going to be honest with you, so I’m not going to beat around the bush. You have something special and I would like to get to know you.
You like it and that’s it. Is there anything wrong with that? No, right?
37. I saw that you were looking at me and… I think we feel the same
For when you have locked eyes several times. A seductive phrase with great power
38. I need an opinion from a woman (or a man)…
This way you start a conversation. It doesn’t matter if what you say doesn’t make sense
39. Have you hurt yourself? Not because? (The other person answers) Because as angels fall from heaven, you might have been hurt.
If the other person takes it well. You already have it …
40. Where can I find a cafeteria around here?… Will you come with me?
A way to tell them that you want to have something with that person.
41. Who lies more: men or women?
Any phrase to start a conversation This question can be quite interesting.
42. I know you don’t know me. That’s why I come to introduce myself…
You like him and you are not going to waste the only opportunity you have to introduce yourself.
43. Do you know? Did I suddenly feel like talking to you and asking you out? What would you say?
A direct phrase to invite you to have a drink without mincing words.
44. Do you have any idea how much a panda bear weighs? Well I think the weight is enough to break the ice, what’s your name?
The important thing is not the question But you’re stuck and then you want to know what it’s called. One of those witty phrases to start a pleasant conversation.
45. Excuse me, do you know what time it is? Because when I saw you I lost track of time
A funny phrase to start a conversation that leads to something more.
46. Why are you so alone? Do you mind if I keep you company?
When that person is alone, it can be an opportunity to flirt. Just make her feel comfortable, and it will be easy to start a nice conversation.
47. Could you tell me your name? It’s just that yesterday I dreamed about you, but I woke up just when you were going to tell me
You can use this phrase, for example, with that boy or girl that you often see in the store in front of your house.
48. It seems incredible that it took me 23 years to meet you.
Have you lived without him or her until now? Now is the time to spend the days next to her.
49. Since you entered this room I have not been able to stop looking at you. We could meet…
A direct way to tell him that you noticed his presence when he arrived at the premises
50. I don’t know what it is, but I felt something incredible when I saw you. And the truth is, I don’t want to let you escape
You felt something incredible when you saw him and you don’t want to miss this opportunity to meet him. Another way to start a conversation that, perhaps, ends up being a romantic story.
51. Looking at you I collided with the wall and got hurt. I need your name and phone number for insurance
A funny fictional situation that gives rise to getting to know each other.
52. I’m looking for someone who loves me and I think you could be the right person.
Resorting to theatricality to seduce.
53. I don’t usually do this, but… do you have a fire?
Humor and cheekiness serve to create an atmosphere of complicity.
54. I am writing a novel, if you give me your information I will send it to you
Playing the role of a person with problems socializing can be used as a humorous resource.
55. You smell very good, have you eaten pizza?
A mix of pick-up line and joke that predisposes the other person to respond with humor
56. Do you believe in love at first sight or should it happen again?
Using yourself as an object of parody is very effective in creating funny moments.
57. I really like your eyes, especially the left one.
A puzzling but fun pick-up line.
58. I have lost my phone number, can I have yours?
Another of the phrases to flirt based on funny fictional situations
59. I see you little but I think about you a lot
A poetic way to express attraction
60. Kiss me
One of the shortest pick up lines; It consists of two words combined.
61. You are the only person with 2 hearts, yours and mine
The heart is a symbol widely used to seduce.
62. Maybe I’m not the most attractive person in the room, but I’m the only one who’s introducing himself to you.
A phrase to pick up with humor.
63. You are so sweet that anyone becomes diabetic with you
Seducing using synesthesia.
64. What you do is walk and the rest is ruining the ground
A funny way to recognize someone’s elegance
65. I hope you know how to give mouth to mouth because I’m out of breath
One of the classic pick-up lines.
66. Can you buy me a drink? When I saw you I dropped mine
Using sass from time to time can create fun moments of complicity.
67. I almost fear death as much as the possibility of not seeing you again.
A tragicomic way to show interest.
68. If I keep looking at you for a long time I will need new eyes
Once again, humor is a very useful tool to create a relaxed atmosphere
69. Nothing I can say will adequately express how much I like you.
A way to express the attraction you feel, fleeing from conventions.
70. I hope to see you more times
Another of the most honest phrases to use to maintain contact with someone.
71. You are one of the most attractive people I have ever met.
Using transparency and simplicity to express feelings.
72. Seduction speaks many languages, but you seem to speak them all
There are people who seem to master all the seduction styles that exist, and without even making an effort to achieve it.
73. It’s not my fault that I like you. It’s your fault for having everything I love
Blaming him for his attractiveness. Well… It’s a way to tell him that you like him
74. Until a moment ago I was homosexual
With this phrase, you are telling the person how attractive they are If you are actually homosexual, you can say: “I was heterosexual until a moment ago.”
75. Could you lend me a dictionary? It’s just that when I saw you I was left speechless
A phrase with a touch of irony You’re sure to make him smile.
76. Everywhere I hear you, everywhere I look at you, you are not everywhere but I take you with me
A phrase that you have to use when you already have a relationship with that person.
77. Because of temptations like you, there are as many sinners as me
A complete statement. Who wouldn’t want to sin with that person?
78. I have observed you so much that I know each and every one of your gestures by heart.
This is a good seduction phrase after having exchanged glances from a distance.
79. Can you get me out of the friend zone or do I have to escape from it?
This is an example of a pick-up line with a person you already know and have talked to many times.
80. Don’t waste time looking for your better half, here I am!
This phrase can also be used using “prince charming” instead of the better half.
How to like someone in a conversation?
It is one thing to know some pickup lines by heart, and another is to go from theory to practice and have a seductive conversation with the person you like. Therefore, keep in mind these key ideas based on basic principles of human psychology to develop your social skills necessary to seduce :
