12 Signs That That Person Wants Something Serious With You
The saying goes well that ‘actions speak louder than a thousand words’ and he is very wise in this regard, because words, despite having a great impact on us, do not represent a guarantee of something concrete.
Of course, when someone ‘gives you their word’ it is a promise to be kept, but… how can you be completely sure of it? We can not. That is why words must always be accompanied by actions that support them and attest that what is said is true.
However, there is another trap here, since in some cases another person’s actions can easily confuse us and leave us in perpetual disorientation. How? When it sends us signals about something we think it wants and it turns out that we misinterpret said signal, causing misunderstandings or serious errors.
Therefore, it is important to take the time to observe and analyze the other person’s body language and be sure that you can understand those signals that they transmit to us and In this article we will show you which of those indicate that that person wants something more serious with you
There is a certain mystery that strongly attracts us when trying to discover if a person wants to be with us, an attraction that increases if that person does not express their feelings to us directly, but rather sends us ‘signals’ to try to discover and decipher their intentions. It’s like a game of secrets where we are the detectives.
This may be because people are much more comfortable conveying their emotions through actions than through their words. Either because they avoid being judged or rejected, because they also feel addicted to maintaining that constant interest in the other person or because they don’t really know how to express themselves.
The problem lies when we misinterpret these signals sent and everything ends up turning into a big disaster. Which can happen when we draw advance conclusions about the meaning of a certain action of the person, which we consider special and unique to us. But that’s not really the case.
Nowadays, relationships have taken on a diverse meaning thanks to people’s acceptance and more open-mindedness towards each other’s desires. That is why it is now possible to have a causal relationship or live with a person before marriage, without being singled out or judged.
This has given us the opportunity to get to know our partner in depth and evaluate the possibilities of a future together , without the pressure of a formal commitment. However, this has provided an escape route that is misused by some to, in a certain way, deceive a person, promising a commitment that never comes or avoiding it at all costs but without letting their partner know.
That is why a large majority of the population, instead of talking about it, prefer to send signals to that other person to ‘communicate’ their intentions to go one step further in the relationship. From establishing the relationship publicly to formalizing it with a move, a marriage or the opportunity to have a family.
Signs that that person wants something more with you
But how can we discover and read these signals well? Here we will give you some tips about that person’s actions so that you keep in mind
1. Show greater dedication
Whether you are dating, or if you already have a relationship but have not formalized it yet, your partner begins to dedicate more time and space to you , messages become long calls, visits are more regular and outings begin to be more diverse. But above all, start worrying about your daily life, what bothers you or the things that can make you happy and try to emulate them for yourself.
2. There is greater communication
It tends to happen at the beginning of relationships that there is not a good channel of communication between the couple. Either because they are afraid of bothering the other, because they believe that what they have to say is not important or because they believe that they will not be able to express themselves well.
So the first conversations are banal and superficial, but then they transform into talks about personal space, confessions about fears and small details that are important to the other and that they want to share.
3. There is greater trust
What we have just mentioned occurs because A higher level of trust begins to exist between the two You can notice this in particular if your partner or that special person you are dating seems reserved and shy about sharing personal things or telling you about their problems, but now they are a little more open, telling you about their daily life, Share funny stories from your past or seek advice on a particular problem.
Remember that it is not just about knowing the happy and perfect side of your partner, but also knowing their concerns and what bothers them. So that you can become his refuge and he will look for you to motivate him.
4. It makes you a priority
It may be that at the beginning of a relationship or at the time of courtship and going out, your partner does not exactly show that you are a very significant person for him. In the sense that, he may choose an outing with his friends rather than going on a date with you or have a lot of trouble including you in his agenda.
For this reason, when you start to notice that he spends more time with you, he asks you what days you have free, he invites you out spontaneously and look for certain ways to please yourself. So he’s making you his priority.
5. The more public relationship returns
It happens to many couples, especially before establishing a relationship and showing it to the public, which people prefer to keep their outings secret or not showing affection in front of other people. Which is normal and can generate doubts and even feelings of sadness, since one of those involved may believe that her feelings are not reciprocated.
But, your love may begin to express his feelings more publicly through gestures, such as holding your hand, giving you more hugs, sitting next to you, taking the initiative when writing to you, etc. Until there comes a time when he admits to others about his intentions with you or the nature of your relationship.
6. Talk to yourself about it
It is very likely that he will not tell you directly about his intentions to advance the relationship or formalize it , but he may start asking you questions about it. About your opinions on commitment, what you expect in your partner or what a more serious and stable relationship is like for you.
It is very important that you always speak honestly, that way the other person can be clear about your position and that way you will know if your relationship has a future or is just something temporary.
7. He is more interested in your things
As we already mentioned, he doesn’t just show an interest in your brighter appearance and superficial attractiveness. But begin to show special attention to the problems of your daily life and how it can help you resolve it, as well as your defects or your performance in the rest of the areas of your life, such as your professionalism, the dreams you want to pursue, the things that make you happy, etc.
No matter how busy you both are, Your special someone will find a way to see you or maintain continuous communication , so that you can be together even remotely. This especially shows that your loved one wants to have a more committed relationship with you.
9. Asks you to share more
They may start visiting you more often, inviting you to family gatherings or if they are already in a relationship , may invite you to stay in their home for longer and longer periods of time. This makes them take advantage of the opportunity to get to know each other better and evaluate how they live together. So they can see whether or not a larger commitment is possible.
10. Start using more meaningful words
Although this person is reserved in expressing their feelings to you or in talking about a more formal stability in their relationship, You can start using more loving words like ‘I adore you, I love you, I love you’ or call you by affectionate pseudonyms. This shows that there is trust between them and a lot of affection that they do not have with any other person.
11. Introduces you to your social circle
This is a very important point to which you must pay close attention to determine if your partner wants something more serious with you. Introducing you to their circle of friends, inviting you to family gatherings, wanting to meet your loved ones and blending in very well with the environment or making an effort to make you feel comfortable in theirs. It is a great sign that he sees you as someone to maintain a formal and stable love relationship, since he considers you important to him.
12. He is more interested in the future
Again, he may not express it or stop to talk to you about his future plans with you, but you can start conversations about what you would like your relationship to be like in a few years, what you hope to achieve their position regarding the commitment and above all they will seek to know your opinion on the matter.
Again, be completely honest at this point and ask some simple but not too direct questions about whether you see yourself together in the future. You can even joke about it and watch their reactions.
Pay close attention to these signs from now on so you know which direction your relationship is going.
