What is it difficult for you to say I love you, I missed you or I’m sorry? Sometimes we don’t realize that the value of relationships, whether friendship or as a couple, lies in the little things.
Often through WhatsApp and email we are receiving many chains of messages about the Value of friendship little angels who protect us: “in order not to suffer a big catastrophe you have to forward it to your friends or if you really love me, send it to me again.”
There are others about life philosophy and great self-help phrases that it seems we have to memorize and see if we improve our lives in this way. Of all these great words, who really applies them? That is, how many people, the day after receiving the friendship chain, tell you why they love a friend? Is love limited only to the couple or is it really something broader?
When you care about someone we have to show it daily, keeping all five senses alert. Perceiving the smile of a colleague, the thanks of the person to whom we open the door, what we feel when someone gives us a hug, a kiss, a pat on the back…
Say “I remember you”, “I missed you”… and not only say it to your partner, but to your friends and family. If it makes us feel so good when we receive it, why don’t we give it more and not just expect something in return?
If man is a hedonist by nature, why don’t we start by reflecting on the pleasure of establishing a routine of giving thanks, saying how much someone matters to us, asking for things with affection, praising the achievements of others? Observe yourself
