Before You Throw Away, Try to Fix

Almost every problematic relationship can be fixed, rebuilt and reused. It is the easiest and cheapest option…and the one with the best emotional results.

We live in one throwaway society We only try to fix those things that have a high value in case of breakdown. In a sign of our times when it is cheaper to replace something different than to fix it.

What does throwaway mean in psychology?

The pity is that this way of thinking and acting also invades some of the fields of our life in particular. relevance to well-being and happiness And the most fragile is that of relationships. Also in this area of ​​life, throwaway has established itself. A relationship with your partner breaks down when you think and feel that it is no longer worth it and that its improvement is not worth it. It’s easier to break up and look for another person again…who statistically has almost every chance of being another throwaway object.

This process never ends well, the only thing it does in each episode is aggravate the feeling of failure and personal discomfort Because? Because there is nothing more frustrating for an individual than repeated failure… it places him before his own inability and ends up destroying his capacity for self-esteem.

Almost every problem Couple relationships It has a solution…and it’s very easy. You have to start from the determination of wanting to fix it, think about fixing it and enjoy fixing it. The statistics on this are illuminating, 75% of the cases of couples who follow a program of recovery and enhancement of their relationships are successful and positively recompose their lives.

You don’t have to do much research to realize the benefit that is obtained, of all kinds, in the face of a process of breakup and separation that, in most cases, has costs of all kinds of unforeseeable consequences for the members of the couple and their family environment.

Therefore, the best thing when the first symptoms of discomfort in the couple, lack of communication and warmth, is to get down to work and decide to fix the situation, with the help of professionals suitable for that task. Throwing away the relationship, breaking relationships, is a cheap path emotionally in the beginning, but very expensive in the long term, emotionally and economically.

Finally a reflection One can discover the origin of the universe, but if one does not discover the origin of one’s happiness, one is nothing as a person. Luckily, everyone is born with the ability to discover it, but only those who determine to think about how to do it and do it and feel happy doing it and enjoy it, discover it.