Eroticism: Definition… And Some Necessary Reflections
When we talk about eroticism , or we hear someone mention an erotic experience or sensation, what is the first thing that comes to mind? Sex and love. Possibly…
You only have to turn on the television or flip through a magazine or newspaper to realize that, these days, the media has commercialized sex and sexuality so much that that is precisely what we think about when we hear words like this. There is so much sexual connotation in some media that sometimes we no longer know if they are seducing us or selling shampoo, for example.
However, there are those who still consider that talking about the subject can be offensive and uncomfortable; for others, the term evokes mental images that refer to genital organs and sexual practice, as well as some health issues (at best). cases) that include eroticism, sexually transmitted diseases and contraceptive methods. And for a few others it is natural to talk about relevant topics.
But what is eroticism? What is an erotic sensation like? What do we mean by this? Does it really only have to do with sexual practices? How much do we know about the subject?
There is little specific information regarding the topic; most research refers to eroticism with vague or incomplete explanations about the concept. For example, It is usually defined as communication and activity as a couple or individually, where different emotions, feelings and attitudes intervene that lead to stimulation genital and orgasm in search of sexual pleasure.
Going to the origin of the term, the word eroticism originates from Greek Eros In reference to God Eros who is associated with sensuality, sexual desire and pleasure, as well as with the behaviors that manifest when there is attraction between two or more beings.
Eroticism is a human characteristic; and indeed, The concept itself refers to the overt behaviors and attitudes that incite sexual interaction and activity such as: caresses, kisses, hugs, oral stimulation, masturbation, among others that generally lead to intercourse and/or directly to the sensation of sexual pleasure of the person who practices them and that reproduction is not necessarily sought with these behaviors.
How and when is eroticism expressed?
How, when and where these behaviors manifest themselves It depends directly on each person’s personality, tastes and preferences , as well as other factors such as socioeconomic level, type of culture, family customs, religious practices, geographical location, etc. These practices allow the individual to be in contact with his body, identify and perceive those stimuli that are pleasurable and, of course, also allow him to know those practices that are not, both for him and the person with whom he shares these experiences. .
Eroticism involves the person in an integral way: physically and psychologically, it represents the way in which they express, for themselves and others, their desires, fantasies and most intimate feelings. There are countless different ways in which each of us brings these desires to reality or not, and manifests our “erotic being”: from a romantic dinner on the beach to a sadomasochism session, a threesome or partner exchange, for example. mention a few. Not all of these erotic manifestations are exotic in nature or border on the extreme.
He Erotic language does not have a specific characteristic, it involves each and every one of our senses It is made up of warm sensations and stimuli that shiver the epidermis, it also involves feelings such as love and desire, the exchange of looks, words, gestures and signs that indicate to the other that one is in a position to take these sensations to the maximum.
Any behavior that represents a source of sexual pleasure for the person can be considered an erotic sensation, this can be provoked with one’s own body, that of the partner or external objects such as toys, feathers, ice, or others; There is a wide range of items that enrich the sexual experience, specialized stores and even annual fairs that promote and inform, the participation of health professionals and sexuality experts is also increasing, allowing erotic life to be even more pleasurable; guiding and educating the population in order to improve the experience.
Some reflections on eroticism
The concept eroticism It is something complex and subjective, therefore, difficult to pigeonhole. According to sexologists, There is no specific practice as normal or abnormal when it comes to eroticism and sexuality The response to an erotic stimulus depends on the desires and fantasies of each person and something that is pleasurable for some can even be painful and abhorrent for others. Therefore, I think it is the responsibility of each of us to define what is or is not erotic and pleasant, to communicate it and to be honest at the time of said practices to maintain our physical and psychological integrity.
I consider that eroticism is part of a human need, not only to receive but also to provide pleasure, a pleasure that can be limited only to physical and mechanical stimulation or extended as much as the limits of our imagination allow, resulting in a complete state of physical and mental pleasure.
A way to rediscover ourselves through pleasure
Erotic practices bring us closer to ourselves and each other in a unique way since It is in intimacy where those personality traits that generally remain hidden or private emerge
It is essential to know our limits and respect those of our partner so that the practice of eroticism is pleasant, long-lasting and constant. “Talking makes people understand” good communication both with oneself and with one’s partner is key so that we can exploit the erotic potential that characterizes us.
Developing an erotic identity is vital for the psychological well-being of the individual. Fortunately, today we have multiple tools such as books, websites, manuals, educational and health institutions, brochures and fairs that are publicly accessible and that allow us to learn about the various aspects that involve erotic identity. Being informed and responsible with our sexual behaviors depends directly on each individual.
