More and more often, applications come onto the market that give us the opportunity to meet interesting people and find the love of our life. Tinder is one of these applications, and it is probably the one that is having the greatest success. But how do we manage to generate interest and be able to have a date?
Seduction 2.0: seven keys to go from social media chat to bed
Then we will give you seven tips so that your dating 2.0 become dating 1.0 and be able to go from the screen of the chat to the bar counter.
1. Be yourself
If our goal is to meet face to face, it is important that we behave in a way that is consistent with who we are. We must think that, sooner or later, we will have to see our contact in person. There is nothing more frustrating than discovering that the person hiding behind the screen was not who they said they were In the next step we will tell you how to do it…
2. Have a coherent profile
Let’s choose suitable profile photos let them talk about us. Of course, we have to choose the photos in which we look the most flattering, but it is not enough. It is important that photographs talk about us, our work and our hobbies. We must choose images in which we appear enjoying our lives For example, if we like skiing, we will choose a photo in which we are skiing. If we work as a waiter in a bar, we will select a photo in which we appear preparing a drink… remember that photos are a great source of information and can also be used to generate conversations.
Once we have selected the photo, it would be advisable that, if the application allows it, we fill out the profile counting about us and what we want to do with our life. We will not leave it blank. We will summarize, in a couple of lines, what we are and what we expect from life. That will help the other person get an idea of what we are like and so they can decide if they want to give us a chance.
3. The entry phrase
You already have a suitable profile and are willing to talk. What are you saying? Before starting to talk, we recommend that you look at their profile. There we will have a very important source of information with whom you can start chatting. You don’t need to impress anyone; We will simply be interested in the other person. Little by little, we will gain practice and it will be easier for us to generate a conversation out of nothing. We will start with questions that must be answered broadly.
We will not focus on “yes” or “no” questions. We are not doing a survey, we are wanting to meet a person of flesh and bones
4. Don’t overwhelm
Let’s not become someone annoying Surely our interlocutor has a life to attend to. Let’s give a limited time to our sessions chat and let’s enjoy real life. That will help the other person wonder about us. For the other person, we have to be a pleasant and appetizing moment In addition, it is important that we save things for the appointment. This way we will generate expectations and awaken your curiosity.
It is important that, as we chat, we generate complicity with jokes that only we and our interlocutor can understand. The other person must detect that you have something special He should feel that you are a respectful person worthy of his trust and we should let him know that we expect the same.
6. Have a reason
If our goal is to meet the other person, we have to have a excuseeven if this is just that we are curious to know it. Things have a reason By communicating it properly it will be more difficult to obtain a No for response.
It is advisable that we have some plan in mind ; something simple with which to spend time together. Let’s try to meet in a busy place where there are people. Let’s remember that the other person does not know us and still does not know what we really are like. You may have doubts about us. We must offer the possibility of verifying that we are just as we have shown ourselves.
7. Don’t insist
We are not an obligation. Our interlocutor has to feel that he wants to know us of his own free will. If he tells us that he can’t stay, let’s not chase him; Let’s give it a break. One way to not get obsessed is to have more than one person to meet up with. This way his refusal won’t affect us as much.
In summary: we have to be patient and behave as we are We have to understand that, behind the screen, hides a real person with feelings and an exciting life that we must discover.
