How to Create the Life of Your Dreams?

To begin with, it is important that you can recognize yourself as the creator of your life, so many of the results we have obtained have been a consequence of a series of personal decisions, listening to judgments, opinions or complaints from those who do not agree with what we believe. you are choosing. Or you have even bought into the point of view that you should become very successful, not because you want it but because of the high expectations you receive from your environment

In either of the two paths you will possibly move away from really creating your life, listening only to judgments makes us doubt, there will always be someone who comes to sow doubts in you, you will always see yourself in the position of asking yourself is this really what I want? Will it be worth making that effort? However, you know that you have been wanting to take that leap for many months or even years and when you get closer the emotion becomes so great and unknown that it begins to be confused with fear of the uncertainty of what may come down the road.

Is it possible to create the life I have always dreamed of?

When you are in the decision you know that now there is no way to reverse the decision, yes you can change, but the experience is something that cannot be undone, it runs through your being from the moment you take the steps towards that dreamed reality. , which is outside the box of your expectations, Trying to figure out all the hows is hard because our mind is trying to find the hows with the box of information it already has, it wants to control the uncertainty so it can lead us to walk in circles

The important thing is to follow the energy of emotion, of enjoyment, of enjoyment and believe me that this is the most difficult part to achieve, to be fully with yourself, to be that space of emptiness so that life enters you: despite that you broke up with your partner, you had a fight with a friend, mom or dad don’t agree with your decisions or things are happening that you think are impossible to change; but you continue choosing to do it differently, because it is not about the approval or disapproval of others, but about the security that you are moving towards what feels right for you, that is why you require openness, letting go of the discourse of productivity that leads us to invest time in thousands of meaningless things, disconnected from your desire, because that is what encapsulates us, makes us feel trapped, our body does not like that, it takes away its movement.

Creating the life you dream of is launching into the search for ideas, remembering your own power, in a constant and committed exercise of making your power increasingly bigger and more robust, of being in that feeling of excitement for knowing that you are the creator of what is around you. around you. The manifestation process passes through your body, through an idea, which descends into your material reality, we can do this process thousands of times, obviously we do not do it because there is a certain comfort in our creations and going to new ones is going through the discomfort of emptiness, but remember how many times you have already been there and everything went well, you managed to solve it.

It is worth creating the life you dream of because it is something that goes beyond a motivational speech, it is being in connection with your life purpose, what is it that you need to transcend to reach that version of yourself that turns you on? Let go of a relationship, start recognizing your achievements, and stop shaming yourself for committing to doing it differently? You don’t know how many clients I have had stuck at this point: they have worked on their beliefs, they have recognized the ancestral programming that limits them, they have recognized their childhood wounds, and they have begun to see the possibility of going through life from different paths.

At that moment the old patterns begin to stop feeling good, for example, if before you felt that you needed to have a partner because you didn’t like being alone, now that no longer works for you, the chip begins to change because you begin to become aware of the place from which you were choosing, that they were not really making you feel in a space of plenitude, on the contrary they feed emotional dependence, which does not allow us to take control to create pleasant and beautiful experiences, and we end up putting that responsibility on the couple

But when there is nothing else to put that burden on, that is when the silence of emptiness and loneliness become present. I use these two terms as literally as possible as if we were imagining ourselves in a space alone with ourselves, where we can see the complete movie of our life to make all the edits we want, but that requires us to stop getting engrossed in fear, guilt and shame for wanting something different, it is a moment that requires the greatest possible concentration, so that the alchemy continues its process, because great saboteurs will appear preventing us from throwing ourselves into that void

Here the energy of the crazy is the one that can best accompany us, since it does not invite us to connect with innocence, not stupidity, that is, return to our ability to see life without the filters of limiting beliefs, to play again, Sometimes in the game we score points, other times we lose and have to start again, but deep down we know that it is just that, a game, which we do not need to take too seriously; It is never, ever, as serious as we think it is.

A journey into our interior

Returning to the point of what we need to transcend, I mentioned how many people give a taste of freedom to create the life they dream of, and from there they return because they do not feel worthy of living that, that is where the game restarts, they return. all the scenarios appear that lead them to experience the things they need to transcend.

A few days ago someone told me that she was very excited because she was going to move, and then I heard her quite overwhelmed by a situation with her family that made her remember how much it hurts her to feel rejected, that point is what has stopped her, the fear of being excluded from her family if she decides to do the things that really catch her attention, this is how this game or pattern has been restarting, every time she takes the leap the shoulds that come to her from her family system are activated; The programming installed in our minds makes us return to the mold of shoulds that go into chaos every time we bring them new information

In whose eyes are you stopping yourself? Do you stop because you think you are rising too high, because you know you deserve more and that shames you? Yes, it happens, and there you have to be aware that if you start working on yourself, on concentrating on removing those blockages and starting to live from the fluidity that living that dream life generates, you are going to want other types of connections and experiences in your life that continue to expand you.

When I talk about creating your dream life, it means really following those things that make the body vibrate, and starting to live in tune with this implies expansion, creation, and many more things that at first will feel strange in your body because we are used to connecting with fear, catastrophe, that things will always be difficult, changing to that other state is uncomfortable, it will require a constant choice to inhabit this for longer, that it becomes everyday to continue choosing the actions that lead you every day to expand what is now a reality.

Keep in mind that many people cannot go with you to that new context, you are not hurting anyone by closing chapters in your life. It is worth opening yourself up to recognizing yourself in new stages of your life, to not be left with doubt, and to begin to strengthen your own personal power, that is the greatest gain, recognizing yourself capable of creating the life you dream of.