How To Deal With Teleworking: 4 Necessary Psychological Changes
The famous teleworking (that is, working remotely or online, using new technologies, whether from home or from any other place that does not involve moving to an office) has become a necessity in times of pandemic, but also a headache.
It is an added difficulty to our new times. How to deal with teleworking to save time instead of losing it? In this article (with video included) you will find the 4 psychological changes necessary to transform your teleworking into an aid for your daily life instead of a problem.
The results or experiences you obtain in your work, in your daily life, in your personal, romantic or family relationships, They depend above all on your personal development : how you interpret situations, how you manage resources, how you communicate, how you build your self-esteem, your way of understanding and managing your emotions, your self-knowledge, etc.
Working remotely today is a challenge for which we were not prepared; not only because of the pandemic situation, but because in many cases we had never done it before and it represents a break with all our known work patterns and structures.
Even before the pandemic, technological advances and our new social needs (8-hour work in the office or elsewhere is unproductive and consumes a large part of our daily lives) made teleworking necessary. But if we are not used to doing it and it causes us stress, anguish, disorganization How are we going to transform it into an advantage?
First of all, is it possible to transform teleworking into an experience that brings more well-being to your life instead of being a nuisance? Yes, you can, but only through your own personal change. Only if you develop the necessary key skills will you be able to face it to save time, achieve more and better results, feel better and harmonize it with your daily and personal life.
A job, a service in short, does not have to mean that you spend a certain number of hours in a specific place. Many of the social needs that different jobs cover can be done remotely It is not at all a cold approach, but rather a productive one, which allows you to harmonize it with your life and improve the personal aspects that we tend to neglect the most (partner, family, personal satisfaction, interest in other knowledge).
However… we already know that the opposite can happen with teleworking if we do not learn to take advantage of it. For this reason, I have left you a video where you can delve deeper into the following: why teleworking is so difficult for us (the social structures that have made us unproductive people) and what are the 4 psychological changes necessary for teleworking to be an experience in your favor.
In the last 10 years I have accompanied, as a psychologist and coach, people who wanted to achieve changes in their lives through change processes, whether personal or professional. Since teleworking is increasingly necessary (sometimes mandatory, without anyone having taught us how to do it), this need to promote personal change has become more immediate.
Summarizing from what we saw above, the main problems that make teleworking an added difficulty are the following:
1. External structures
These dilated time instead of optimizing it according to specific and inflexible schedules.
2. Work according to minimum times
Likewise they made us stretch time and lose focus (to understand what the maximum and minimum times mean, watch the video).
3. Lack of trust
This lack of confidence can be oriented towards you or towards your results, and lowers your mood and it makes you feel more and more insecure.
What to do to deal with teleworking?
You also already know what those 4 necessary psychological changes are (which you can find developed in the video above).
1. Learn to manage time
Work according to maximum times instead of minimums to gain focus and time)
2. Planning and organization
For prioritize what is important over what is urgent learn to make decisions and economize resources)
3. Create your own structure
With clear routines that are totally different from those in the office but that do not stretch time and keep you at work longer than necessary… you know, no working in your pajamas)
4. Learn to understand and manage your emotions
These lead you to make one decision or another or to interpret what happens one way or another.
In conclusion…
If you want to develop these skills and experience the change you need, at empowermenthumano.com you find the possibility of scheduling a first exploratory session with me to take that first step. In addition, people who live their processes in the month of November will have extra help to improve their productivity.
First of all, I send you lots of encouragement, and rest assured that Teleworking, thanks to your own personal change, will end up being an experience that you want to stay with instead of abandoning it. Our life is worth living if we have it available to be lived, not just as a weekend interval. Having time at your disposal is, in principle, a decision. A decision that leads you towards your personal change.
