Sexual relations are highly pleasurable and have a positive influence on relationships However, over time, many couples may experience moments of monotony and their sexual satisfaction may decline, causing the couple’s well-being to decline as well.
That is why it is good to try new things in the field of intimate relationships, and do our part so that our partner enjoys their sexuality.
Masturbation can be very pleasurable. However, not knowing how to masturbate a man can lead to situations of little pleasure and even pain.
That is why below we leave you a list of tips so that, whether you have a partner or not, you can know how to masturbate a man correctly.
1. Use lubricant
The use of lubricant is frequently associated with anal penetration, but it is ideal for masturbation Its effect is noticeable when avoiding pain and increasing pleasure, since many of the products on the market provide extra sensations, for example, of cold heat or stimulating smells.
If you want your partner to have more pleasurable masturbation, use lubricant and you will see the results.
2. Communicate
Communication is essential in the field of couples, and sexual intimacy is no exception By communicating appropriately with our lover it is possible to know his sexual tastes, know what satisfies him most and how we can increase the pleasure he feels. Without a doubt, talking openly about this topic improves trust and, therefore, relationship satisfaction.
Just like in female masturbation, It is good to start little by little and increase the pace of masturbation That is why it is necessary to stimulate the areas near the penis first and then move on to the male sexual member. Once in this, it is better to start with slow movements to move on to faster movements. This also applies to intensity, so the touch should be increased progressively.
4. Explore the body
A good way to get progressively closer to the penis is to explore the body. Bites on the neck, passionate kisses or a good massage They can increase pleasurable sensations so that when the penis is stimulated, blood has already moved through the erogenous zones and the pleasure has progressively increased.
5. ‘Stop and go’
A technique that works very well and is related to the intensity of the stimulation is the stop and go technique , which means that when your partner is getting close to ejaculation and warns you, you should stop masturbating. Then, progressively, you can start the process again and stop as many times as you want. The more times you stop, the greater the ejaculation will be.
6. Set it to 100 before starting
This technique works because your partner gets 100 and then you leave him wanting , which causes an accumulation effect. But turning your partner on is a process that not only begins when you are in front of each other, but you can start masturbating before seeing him. For example, calling him at work to tell him that you bought a new lubricant to masturbate him tonight. You can also sext until you meet, so that he anticipates the meeting and gets excited before you even get down to it.
To improve the sexual experience, it is possible to try different games or techniques that increase this experience For example, you can use ice around the penis when you are masturbating your partner.
A technique that is very effective and that produces great pleasure is the following. After masturbating your partner intensely and when he warns you that he is getting close to ejaculation, he stops vigorously stimulating the member and continues performing the bottom-up movement with the penis but simply rubbing it with his hand. This will cause your partner to mobilize more blood towards the penis in search of your hands (which he notices but not with enough intensity) and will cause him to ejaculate with more force and feel an orgasm that will take him to heaven.
8. Don’t forget the testicles
Normally we associate masturbation and the pleasure of this act with the stimulation of the penis, but to increase stimulation, it is much better to stimulate other parts of the body. The testicles, being very close to the penis, are easy to stimulate ry are ideal for improving orgasm. You can start by stimulating them before you start touching the penis (in anticipation), but you can also do it while you perform up and down movements with the male sexual member. Use your fingers, tongue, nibble, lick and even use a feather in this area to increase your partner’s pleasure.
9. Stimulates the perineum
Stimulation should not only be on the penis or testicles. An area that is very stimulating for men is the perineum The perineum is located between the anus and the testicles and it can be stimulated with the tongue, ice or a feather.
Now, anal stimulation is even better, although there are certain prejudices regarding this practice For a man, anal and penile masturbation at the same time can be one of the greatest sexual experiences he can enjoy. So you have to have an open mind about this practice, because the results are spectacular.
11. Create a conducive environment
The environment in which masturbation occurs plays a determining role in causing greater pleasure Therefore, it is good to take care of the details where we carry it out. For example, it is possible to put on music, adequate lighting and some candles in the room where we are going to masturbate our partner.
12. Look for other places
But masturbation can not only take place in the bedroom, it can take place in other places For example, in the shower, where it is possible to play with the water jet directly on the erogenous zones to increase pleasurable sensations. The most daring can even carry out masturbation in other places, for example, in the sea or in a swimming pool.
13. Try different positions
The classic way to masturbate a man may seem like the most pleasurable, but in reality it is not There are unconventional positions that can increase arousal and, as a consequence, orgasm. For example, if your partner stands with his legs closed and you stimulate his penis, the resistance he makes with his body (which would tend to relax and separate his lower limbs at the time of ejaculation) causes a much more intense orgasm as a result of mobility restriction. Your partner will surely love it.
