You have no motivation, you don’t find meaning in life, you don’t find your reason for being and you see the glass directly without water.
Let me tell you that, if this happens to you currently, it is a very good sign, and that you can use it to propel yourself towards what you have really come to do in this life.
This means that You have realized that the life you have led until now no longer fulfills you it doesn’t make you vibrate and that’s why you feel that great emptiness inside you.
We live unconsciously programmed, in a materialistic society in which we must work at least eight hours a day, normally in a job that does not fulfill us and simply for the fact of feeling productive and being able to pay the bills.
And that makes us live on autopilot: you get up (you probably check your WhatsApp, email, Facebook, Instagram notifications), you have breakfast, you work, maybe you meet a friend, you have dinner, one, two or three glasses of wine and finally you go to sleep until the next day.
But let me ask you: Does that job really make you happy? Do you consider work as a duty or something that is not difficult for you to do because it fulfills you completely? Do you live life your way or a life imposed by factors external to you?
Surely, either you have never reflected on these questions, or if they have crossed your mind, you have made some kind of excuse to convince yourself that your job is not so bad that it gives you stability or that you will look for something better when you find what you are truly passionate about.
But is this the truth? Or rather, what is holding you back is the fear of letting go of that false security? The fear of change may be the fear of failing in the attempt
Other people say they don’t know what they would like to do with their lives, and this is due to a lack of knowledge of the different options they have. They simply do not yet know what they are good at or the skills they naturally possess, that is, they think that only certain types of jobs or careers are available and with which they could perform professionally.
It’s not their fault, this is the most normal thing that happens to us humans. Usually no one guides us in this aspect and We think we have limited options But it is your responsibility to do something about it if the life you currently lead is not the life you would like to lead.
A tendency to make the same mistakes
It’s not about leaving one job to get into another one that is more of the same; That is not going to solve the problem, because if you have not reflected on why that job was not right for you and what it is that you really want, then You will most likely keep repeating the same pattern over and over again and that you remain dissatisfied with the new job after a while.
And this can be extrapolated to any area of ​​your life; If the pattern of behavior continues to repeat itself and that makes you suffer, it is because you have not identified it and worked on it. Therefore, until you solve it, it will continue to repeat itself in different situations in your life.
The purpose
But… does the purpose of life exist? And if so, how to focus to direct ourselves towards it?
First I want to point out that we have all come to this world with a purpose in life, it is only a matter of time before life brings us closer to it. I think it is very positive to know that this exists and that, although we still do not know what it is, that we at least have the certainty that sooner or later life is going to expose it to us with situations, people, jobs… And that we simply have to pay attention. to those signs that the universe sends us.
What is one thing you would effortlessly do every day of your life? ¿What topics are you interested in? and you naturally spend hours reading and researching about it? Is there anything that makes you lose track of time? Do you remember what you played with when you were little that excited you a lot?
Maybe you think that you can’t live on dreams, and I’m not telling you to quit your job because of it (yet), I simply invite you to reflect on these questions and above all not to leave aside what makes you vibrate, what that you would dedicate your 24 hours a day. And from there think about how you could make a living from what you are passionate about
Rome was not built in a day, but I am sure that the person who dreamed of building it had a plan and firmly believed that it was possible, regardless of the time it took to make it a reality.
Remember that the limits are those that you set for yourself and that, if you believe in yourself, anything is possible. I send you a lot of strength and from here I encourage you to continue searching for that purpose in life, but more than searching for it, to live a life full of purpose.
