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It is increasingly common for us to talk about mental health. It is a popular expression that worries us. But, if there really are more mental health problems, why is that? When can we know that we have mental health problems? How to approach it?
The great difficulty with this type of concept is that today we live in the world of information overload. We receive so much information that we do not have time to reflect on it. If there are more mental health problems, the solution should not be massive medication. We have to find the why, know when it happens to us and how to solve it in a stable way, not just with temporary patches.
In this article we are going to delve into what mental health really is, when we have these difficulties and how to solve them. What I am going to tell you is based on my direct work in therapy as a psychologist. There has been an important change since 2020 and that experience in therapy will help us see it more clearly. At the same time, I am going to give you the solutions that have really served in processes of change and therapy to improve mental health in a stable way.
Are there really more mental health problems?
Before 2020, 50% of the people I saw had difficulties related to anxiety or discouragement. The reasons for starting a process of change or therapy can be diverse: a relationship breakup, insecurity in relationships, self-esteem problems, or even work-related. On some occasions, these difficulties led to anxiety, intrusive thoughts and subsequent discouragement or demotivation.
However, Since 2020, the number of people who have some difficulty with anxiety or discouragement has reached almost all. The reason is not that more and more people decide to live a committed and safe therapeutic process, since there is more and more intrusion or theories that attract our attention (without having any type of evidence). The real reason is that our mental health problems have increased in recent years.
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Let’s reflect on what mental health really is to understand it better.
What really is mental health?
To understand what mental health truly is, we have to think about what health means. Health is our body’s ability to be well and recover from stimuli that harm us. In this way, A cold or fever is a sign of good health, since our body can recover on its own.. When we can no longer recover and a series of discomforts are constant, we speak of a health problem or even illness.
Mental health is applying the idea of health to our well-being, psychological and emotional state. Throughout our lives we experience difficult situations that cause us discomfort and learning that we carry with us. It could be childhood problems, a breakup, or a personal crisis. We have psychological and emotional resources to overcome. A mental health problem arrives… when we no longer have those resources. When there is frequent anxiety, or discouragement prevents us from making decisions, or arguments are so constant that we can’t seem to get out of them, we have a mental health problem.
We also have to differentiate between a mental health problem and a mental illness. A mental illness is not only about not having the resources to be well, but about having a disability. This happens when we can’t get out of our point of view (such as a psychotic personality disorder) or very dysfunctional limitations. Sometimes mental illness comes from having mental health problems for too long.
What then is the great mental health problem that we experience today?
That we have fewer and fewer resources to be well, anxiety and discouragement are more frequent, and that treating these problems with massive medication cannot be the solution (in the same way that taking drugs for every headache we experience is not a solution). without going to the cause of those frequent pains).
Mental health is improved through our own personal learning. If we try only to relieve symptoms, the problem will return over time. We are going to delve into the main causes of our increasing mental health difficulties and how to recover those resources to be well.
Causes of mental health problems: why do we waste our resources?
Certain stressful situations that are repeated over time can cause mental health problems (anxiety and/or continued discouragement, as well as outbursts of anger, frequent and very limiting self-esteem problems, etc.). It may be about the intensity of the situation (a traumatic experience) or its duration (it lasts for a long time).
There are 7 main causes that lead us to have more and more mental health problems.
First, I leave you the video version of this article in case you prefer this format (the article continues below).