You Are Your Own Future Project

I imagine that you know that moment when you are aware that internal changes are occurring that will give way to new stages, but the previous stage has not yet been closed.

I imagine you know that moment when you are aware that they are happening internal changes that will give way to new stages, but the previous stage has not yet been closed, so there are many pending stories, many loose ends and many wars to fight.

Life puts us on the path always several options, and although sometimes we are aware and other times we are not, we make our own choices and trace our own route. One is walking and suddenly feels that there are things that creak, environments and jobs that stopped giving you something a long time ago and that currently only they consume energy. Suddenly, you visualize yourself from the outside and see that the path, instead of forward, has been going downwards, sinking you, where more and more parts of you disappear, to blend with that environment. And you see yourself, with your head out, trying to gather strength and giving courage and energy to every part of you, to be able to get out of there.

How do you get out of a crisis?

In this process of getting out of the hole, one rediscovers oneself. At first, it may seem impossible to see a way out. But something inside us always pulls upward. Something that pushes you to be brave, to fight against fear and to seek your individuality. You begin to join people who have that inner strength, who infect you with their energy and you feel that that is what you want, that is what you have been looking for for so long.

And then there is no turning back. It’s that individuality, if you are able to value, which leads you to be creative, to be consistent with yourself, to listen to yourself before listening to what is said from outside. Don’t be afraid to be different, especially if your difference is what enriches your life, your world, the world.

But in life there is always something to lose in order to gain. Things don’t usually come the easy way. It’s bad. It goes very badly. You realize that perhaps not even those you thought were closest to you will understand. the reason for your decisions You think you have gone crazy for wanting something different, changing jobs, choosing a partner, alternative plans to the familiarly preconceived ones, etc.

It’s like starting to write a blank page, the beginning is always difficult. With how well you are following a path already laid out, with how easy it is to stay as you are most comfortable. That’s the price. Hold on and survive, or take a chance and live. Throw yourself into an unknown world, without support initially, the only support being yourself, your intuition and your project. What project? Your person.

If anyone ever wonders what psychotherapy is, I just share my experience It is a process that helps you walk in the direction that leads you towards life, a process in which you are not advised, directed or given guidelines. It just helps you question and question yourself. It is an open hand to move forward. That is the best life project. Making a bet on yourself and suddenly surprising yourself doing things you never thought you would be capable of. In short, feeling that things can really change.