If you want to know what to look for to find your ideal partner, here you will find some extraordinarily vital advice.
When we talk about the ideal couple We must differentiate between our tastes and what suits us in relation to our personality, way of being and customs. Although we may think otherwise, our tastes do not always coincide with our convenience.
On the other hand, we must differentiate between ideal couple and perfect couple Our ideal partner will never be perfect but it will be perfect for us as it will blend with our way of being and living despite the differences that exist between the two.
A story tells the story of an adventurer who searched all over the world for the perfect woman. After going around the world, sailing the seven seas, climbing high mountains, crossing long deserts and searching the largest forests, he found her; He however did not marry her. Because? Unfortunately she also wanted a perfect man.
It is important that we overcome these social misunderstandings in order to do not turn our false expectations, dreams and hopes into a heavy slab that crushes our partner, frustrates us and ends any type of relationship with long-term aspirations.
Having clarified these two common misunderstandings, we can highlight an essential factor that can guide you in the search for that person who will be ideal for you: the complicity
Your ideal partner will always be a great friend to the point that he will know what you like, what you want, what interests you, what you think about certain topics and in certain situations,… And he will act in accordance with this knowledge, being an indispensable ingredient for your happiness. This It will make you feel comfortable, confident, respected and appreciated in the different facets of your life as a couple. If you have reached this point of complicity with someone, the adventure of your search may already be over! Have you considered that this could be your ideal person?
It is clear that complicity will never be the decisive factor, but it will be an indispensable ingredient along with the following three:
Have a common life project: It is necessary that there be consensus on major life decisions (where to live, how many children to have, etc.)
Finding an emotional balance between harmony and passion : It is essential to find a balance in the combination of the personality traits of the two members of the couple.
Promote affection, tenderness, understanding and generosity
Complicity, together with these three factors, would represent around 80% of success in a couple.
