How to Get Out of Depression? Tips and Effective Treatments

Dr. Emily Williams Jones Dr. Emily Williams Jones – Clinical Psychologist specializing in CBT and Mindfulness Verified Author Dr. Emily Williams Jones – Psychologist Verified Author

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Going to psychotherapy requires a commitment and effort to change on the part of the patient with their reality.

It is not possible to make healthy changes in behavior without willpower, effort or motivation. But… How is it possible to have motivation when I feel depressed? Next, I will indicate some concepts that will help you identify depressive symptoms and tools to combat them.

    Symptoms

    Depressive symptoms create an unpleasant sensation for those who suffer from them, they experience:

      These negative characteristics are ultimately a set of unpleasant symptoms that replace the things we liked to do with others. This is how we can begin to observe that it is possible to recover the experiences that generated well-being before we were depressed.

      What to do about depressive symptoms

      First of all, it is important to know that to the extent that we are focused on the negative aspects in any aspect of our life. As long as we focus on the bad things that happen to us, we are taking away attention from the good and positive things This ends up becoming a habit for your mind. When depression has been in you for a long time, this connection is so important that you practically cancel out everything positive. It is a sabotage of everything that could be good, since your brain automatically looks for something negative to replace it, since in some way you have programmed it for that.

      Now, one thing I warn you about is that It is not possible to change the connection and focus of attention from one day to the next But you can start by identifying the things you used to like to do and now you don’t do. To the extent that you identify the “negative programming” that you have built with constant negative thoughts and behaviors that reinforce it, you will be able to plan new programming with a more positive approach.

      Thoughts

      Attention is the ability to concentrate on a particular stimulus that we have selected among the others. To attend to one stimulus it is necessary to ignore others. For example, when we are watching an interesting movie, we pay attention to our cell phone or other things around us. Depression is an illness that collapses people’s attention span and thought processes respond to a demand for involuntary attention. Therefore, it is important to take stock of the things that are given importance. With therapeutic help you will be able to change the focus of attention characteristic of depression to recover motivation, enthusiasm and moments of well-being.

      Depressive behaviors take time to establish themselves in your body and mind. It is very likely that the trigger for this disease comes from unpleasant experiences or that you do not know exactly its origin. The important thing is to analyze to what extent you have programmed your mind so that the moment of sadness remains established in you.

      Why do you get depressed?

      Getting depressed is a way of connecting with the world and coping with life, allows us to constantly remember what could not be done, our defects, what we are missing, etc. The difference with a positive connection is to look at all these aspects and in turn look for a solution. Therefore, we would be connecting with the things that can be changed, we would begin to change the focus of attention with a balance of thoughts that are not inclined to the negative.

      It is normal, natural and healthy for you to feel sad at different times in your life.

      But when that sadness changes the environment and you stop doing the things you like, you abandon projects, hopelessness grows in you, sadness becomes a pathology, so a self-evaluation is important to prevent that pathological sadness, depression, continues to take away your moments of enjoyment and well-being.

      Get out of depression

      It’s not easy, but it is possible. If little by little you build a stimulating environment around you, focusing your attention on the positive things you have, and planning activities that allow you to connect with the things you like, things will fall into place.

      Depression will fade over time It is important that you know that, just as depression takes time to set in, you have to be constant in implementing positive behaviors to change your perception of your environment. If you don’t, depression will take up more and more spaces in your mind and body, going through different degrees of mild, moderate and severe. Even in chronic cases, other mental disorders may be associated with depression due to the magnitude of the lack of control of your habits and thoughts. Therefore, it is important to make changes in thought processes and behavior that can influence the creation of an environment that promotes greater well-being and growth.

      Depression is a disease that all people can suffer from. And, unlike sadness, it is a lifestyle that is adopted with negative habits that are repeated daily, added to the thoughts that allow depression to persist.

      It is essential that you see a mental health professional since the techniques described above are only useful strategies that by themselves do not replace what is a psychotherapy process. The psychologist will intervene individually in your case so that you can have the necessary tools to effectively deal with your depression.


      • Emily Williams Jones

        I’m Emily Williams Jones, a psychologist specializing in mental health with a focus on cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) and mindfulness. With a Ph.D. in psychology, my career has spanned research, clinical practice and private counseling. I’m dedicated to helping individuals overcome anxiety, depression and trauma by offering a personalized, evidence-based approach that combines the latest research with compassionate care.