Has it ever happened to you that after an argument with your partner you don’t really know how to take the first step towards reconciliation? Or if that step will be accepted…?
Has it ever happened to you that after a discussion with your couple You don’t know very well how to take the first step towards reconciliation ? You don’t know who should take it, or how, or you don’t even know if that step will be accepted…
This problem is very common in relations of couple , and sometimes these situations make more of a dent in the relationship than we think. That is why learning to know how to give and accept acts of rapprochement and reparation after an argument is so important.
These gestures can be very varied, and can be adapted to different couples, even creating a “secret” language within the couple.
In the Nestlé advertisement, for example, in my opinion it captures this sense of repairs in the couple
This ad shows how despite a discussion which happen in all relationships, the welfare of the relationship of the couple, must take precedence over the misunderstanding, over-understanding or disagreement that gave rise to the discussion.
These acts can be things as romantic as the announcement, or they can be things as simple as starting a conversation about the weather, the goal is to establish a connection with the partner, to say; “It’s not worth staying angry“.
Now it’s your turn, if you don’t know how to get back to normal after an argument, try talking about what things you could do to get closer to each other and accept that approach.
Cheer up, you love each other!
