We always hear about “scorned women,” and I would like to write this article about the cruelty of a scorned man, a topic that is avoided to be talked about I would like it to reach women and children who suffer the ordeal of having a scorned man who voluntarily complicates their lives on a daily basis. The evil with which a scorned man behaves can destroy our lives and those of our children.
I want women to have tools to move forward, always. Don’t give up. No matter how much they are systematically beaten, you have to continue, because there is no other possibility but to continue, and to continue, no matter how much each step costs sweat and tears, it will make you, I promise, happier and stronger.
My goal is for them to be able to position themselves in a different place in the face of other people’s evil. There are many evils, but it depends on us if we allow it to penetrate us or not. Also, I would like women and children to be able to understand that cruelty comes from unfortunate people, who have nothing on an emotional level and lacked genuine love since they were born.
The cruel man is a man who lacks humanity. He has no heart, he has no passions, he does not sing to life, he does not feel pity, nor does he have empathy for the pain of others.
Cruelty can be seen in very different aspects, but in all its forms, It always aims to tear the other physically and psychologically apart Cruelty humiliates, degrades, hurts, makes the other feel “powerless” and is also filled with anger, as well as pain. Cruelty blurs the limits with the other person, tries to disorganize the other, in all aspects of their life, and the victim is left with a feeling of total lack of protection, even if they have it, and always had it, they believe they have lost their protection. . Cruelty aims to disorient the other person. When a woman receives cruelty, she feels lost, directionless.
to the cruel man He is inhabited by a feeling of psychic death that leads him to carry out evil behaviors against others and his mood is usually euthymic, that is, always the same, he does not get down or happy.
These men, deep down, are cruel because they are desperate for what they lost, desperate for not being able to feel something pleasurable; desperate to destroy what they lost, who not only lost it, but also deeply envy it.
The desire for revenge
The scorned man is inhabited by a feeling of revenge, which takes hold of him and blinds him, commits atrocities even with his own children, whom he “loves.” He seeks to punish, he rejects any type of compensation, he feels wounded in his virility and wants to recover his power, he is only passionate about the evil that must be done to the woman, and it is his only driving force to continue living.
Tenderness, on the other hand, is exactly the opposite of cruelty Tenderness creates empathic bonds, protects the other, cares for them, pampers them, while cruelty desires evil and destroys any type of loving bond with the other. Tenderness is aware of the fragility of the other and protects him, the cruel throws the other into the sea with sharks and enjoys it. It is important to understand that it is necessary to have lacked tenderness to be cruel.
I would like women to be able to understand that a scorned man is full of hate. Hatred is in the blood of the scorned man, as if he were a hot liquor, and it aims at their destruction. Understand that the same hatred that they emanate destroys and poisons them as well. They are poor men, unhappy and above all mediocre.
The resentful and spiteful man He wants all the evils they have suffered to attack and destroy the person he “thinks” caused it They feel they have lost what gave them a certain psychological stability and they walk through life “broken.” This hatred they have is due to an unaccepted sadness, and they decide to destroy the woman with it, instead of accepting the situation and moving forward.
What to do about this?
I think the best way to survive a scorned man is clinging to secure bonds, count the blessings that one has, because almost always one “forgets” about them, or takes them for granted. Count your blessings and you will be surprised. And, most importantly, focus on passion. The passion that is life itself, living it, moving forward, getting up every day and facing all the fronts that must be fought. With effort, every day, it comes out. Life is an opportunity to make sense of it.
Finally, be yourself, don’t try to be anyone other than what you are and if the world can’t digest it, it’s not your issue. And from now on, know that anyone who will not be able to accept that you are happy is a spiteful man.
